A man told his wife to quit her job because she was earning more than him,and he was feeling insecure, she decided to quit her job and got one with lesser pay,and they lived happily ever after.
See sustaining a marriage is just all about obeying,and understanding your husband.
I’m not saying that this story is true lakini I can see why the man can be bothered. Women wanakuwa na madharau fulani when they earn more. It is the reason why our ancestors did not allow them to inherit property.