I have been reflecting on my past encouters, and I have realized that all is usually well as long as I maintain a casual relationship/flings, but as long as things begin to pick pace (become serious of sorts) most of them bail out.
This has happened thrice- making me the common denominator.
Two of them said something to the tune of not feeling “emotionally connected”- whatever that means. What does it mean btw?
Because they know u are a low-value negroid who deserves nothing but sloppy seconds. Work to become a man of value like me and them hoes will be grabbing you as soon as you walk down the streetm
Tafasali elezea mimi kama mtoto mdogo… Im in my mid 20s i’m really working hard around the clock kunukisha kitunguu, and seriously saving. I’m sure by 30 i’ll have made major strides. Other than that I am very outgoing, and sijawahi ogopa kuapproach.
I am confused. It is usually the other way round, dudes preferring to keep it casual na kukimbia karura when the ladies ask “what are we/where are we headed…”
Once she has conquered you and give in to her demands, she looks for the next man to do the same. In her brain, ‘if it was easy for her to manipulate you and ,put you in her pocket, what will other women do?’
That’s why men should not chase relationship, it’s the womans job to do that.
Yeah, most people husema kitu ka hio… but mine I feel is kinda reverse… as long as we are casual things will be cool hadi a few months down the line watu wakianza kukatch feelz… hapo ua najua nimeingia matatani… and its them who bail out, si hata mimi… so sielewi
That is why I have decided to ask,
Especially hii part ya “not feeling emotionally connected”