Adopted Children Are Thankless ...WHY ?

I can count several instances of adopted kids misbehaving and being unappreciative …THEY ALWAYS FORGET THE DITCH THEY WERE GOTTEN FROM !! Juzi one was arrested for trying to kill his adoptive parents (BETTY TET) , Some were Fucking each other (SAITOTI’s kids) etc etc … alafu skia this story VIEW STORY HERE

This story is sad in many levels :
1 .SHE WAS NEGLECTED by her kids…and…
2 . Hakuna husband around to instill some needed ground rules & respect :mad::mad:

Mimi na prefer giving these kids half my salary & all the sh** they need but wakae huko kwa orphanages to avoid attachments …ALAFU… once you bring them home , they become too comfortable & decide to go look for their real parents …which is bullsht :meffi::meffi: (si they got rid of you for fk’s sake , kwa nini unarudi huko you spoilt thankless sh*ty brat…nkt ! :mad:)

But the most controversial point is , some perverts get funny ideas adolescence ikingia coz they say “hey , we are not related”…google this…

I prefer making my own kids hata kama watapikwa kwa test tube…then…leaving a will ensuring my bae is well supported till forever.This is just sad .

OFFCOURSE NOT ALL ADOPTED KIDS ARE THIS WAY…

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… and on the other hand many kids of your own flesh and blood are misbehaving and unappreciative. No parents today have any guarantee that their kids will be there when they will need them.

Adoptive parents wanafaa kuelewa psychology ya adopted kids ama itakuwa kazi bure tu

Well when you raise kids, your own or adopted, do not expect them to be grateful. They can choose to be whatever they want. Besides wako job. For God’ sake walikuwa wanafaa waache kazi zao waende wakachunge mama mzee. If she earns a million a manoth why not engage the services of a plaiative care nurse. If she has foreign citizenship, she will not even have to pay for it herself. This seems like fishy shit to me. Watu wameanza uhungry juu mathe amezeeka wanataka kunyang’anya watoi juu si damu yao

Niaje Psychologist.Ebu elaborate further.

Difference is you do not choose your own kids but you choose your adopted children…that makes it more gut wrenching if you ask me ! You could have shrugged , ignored these kids and walked out but you didn’t …:oops::oops:

Meme thief ! :D:D

Kuna mwingine tukigrow, that little shit has to be the most spoilt brat I’VE EVER COME ACROSS. His parents were some wazee with older kids in the US, I think they got lonely and decided to adopt. Sisi hatukua tunajua ni adopted, coz alikuwa anapewa kila kitu anataka. Obviously tuli-assume ni an only child juu tulikuwa watoto (only found out later about the older siblings in the US).

Sasa hii burukenge ndio ilikuwa inatawala kwa hiyo nyumba. Mtoto anaamka asubuhi anasema “leo sitaki daddy aende job, nataka akae na mimi”, na mzae anakunja mkia anabaki nyumbani. Kitu haiezi pikwa kwa hiyo nyumba kama Junior haja-approve. Akitaka toy ata kama ni saa sita usiku anaenda kutafutiwa. Tulikuwa tunashindwa ni majini gani huyu mtoto amewekea wazazi.

The day I found out he was adopted, I was like “Wait, what?..Wait, hold up, just hold the fuck up…DAFUQ!!!”.

They say the apple did not fall very far from the tree. If you are a dubious character who abandons your kids, your kids are like you geneticall; dubious characters. Sumbua sumbua. Dont adapt kids hujui kama baba zao na mama zao ni takataka.

There is a story on a former UNESCO employee and her adopted kids… @digi uko wapi ulete link

This is just a ploy to disinherit the adopted kids.

Mtoto ni malezi come what. For chances of raising the child better, mchukue akiwa mchanga.

Musengi hasumbui Bibi ya saitoti na hata hana interest na mali ya saitoti,stop blanket condemning orphans

Kabisa! I have a wealthy aunt with 2 adopted kids (won’t say from which part of the country). Anyway, those kids have been nothing but trials, magerio. She has been advised to cut them loose since they’re over 18 lakini hasikii. They are siblings who were abandoned by their parents, at 2 and 1 years of age, due to some issues which are now fully manifesting in the kids. She has suffered and spent oodles of money on very ungrateful people who at some point had planned to kill her.

It takes a special heart to adopt a baby that isn’t yours, hiyo ni baraka kuu. Perhaps it’s more wise to contribute to their upkeep in an orphanage than to get emotional ties because they might not feel the same way about you.

In my country you cannot select a kid you want to adopt as there are not many and it normally takes years from the moment when you applied for and till you can go home with on . You have to accept what the Youth Welfare Office “is offering” you.

Sii ukabila lakini never adopt shiny eyed kids. Chances of landing those with recessive criminal and whorish genes are very high. Usiseme hukuambiwa.

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