Angekuwa Mtoto Wako Ungefanyaje? Maoni?

ombudsman

ombudsman

Village Elder
#1
#1
My last born bro used be a disciplined kid with a promising future. In form four he scored an A plain of 81 points akaitwa Maseno Bsc Nursing. All was going well till walihamishwa Kisumu Campus ndio wawe wakipiga mashifts pale Russia hosy. That was 2019. Sasa kijana akaenda kutafuta nyumba pale Kondele I think that was blunder number 1 coz alipatana wrong rende huko.

So the guy during the last trisemester misses to attend a night shift and a supervisor gives him a fail. So in 2020 before covid picks, the guy is in fourth year. Nonetheless, Dean of Nursing comes and tells him that he must go back and redo the whole final sem in third year since he failed one of the units in that final Sem for absentism, which is a gross misconduct in a medical field. That's when hell broke loose. The guy transitioned to a full blown drug user; weed, wada, kujidunga, chang'aa, mafwaka, nakadhalika. The school was forced to call home we go and collect him and him to return only if he becomes clean.

My dad was so stressed with the issue till he succumbed in early 2021. Now the guy is still causing fracas pale nyumbani (some local peddlers kwa mtaa still sell him weed despite knowing his condition), threatening my mum, hiding and selling some household items, and demanding that apewe shamba yake ajipange nayo. Today I am informed that amemwaga CAN kwa borehole pale home which serves a good numberof our neighbours. Now my mum called me on whether to arrest the guy because she is now overwhelmed with his unbecoming behaviour as he may end up doing something worse. Should we tupa this guy ndani for character development? Wazazi saidieni.
 
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captain obvious

captain obvious

Village Sponsor
#5
#5
The boy most likely started abusing fangi in high school, ni vile tu he used to hide it well. Ama he didn't want to do a medical related course but was somehow forced to because he had passed. Sasa kufika huko akaanza kutumia mihadarati ku-cope na hizo gory scenes hukua hosi. Hapo options ni either rehab (most are expensive as f**k) ama kupeleka yeye Mathare kwanza. Polisi wanaeza twanga yeye kwa cell akufe (unless you're all secretly hoping for such an outcome ndio shida iwaondokee). Lakini act fast for your mum's sake...yeye pia najua BP inamsumbua, not to mention your bro might go berserk one day and make national headlines.
 
Kodiaga

Kodiaga

Village Sponsor
#6
#6
Pole sana kaka: Sina advice juu ataenda polisi na atoke akiwa worse(he will kill people)

Wadau munisamehe si kupenda kwangu. Please Nimejikaza nisiingize hii kitu hapa lakini lisilo na budi hubidi. Such stories make me embrace MGTOW +CHILDFREE =FREEDOM
Raising a kid in this generation is just too much! Pooh!
 
Titty Twister

Titty Twister

Village Elder
#11
#11
ombudsman said:
My last born bro used be a disciplined kid with a promising future. In form four he scored an A plain of 81 points akaitwa Maseno Bsc Nursing. All was going well till walihamishwa Kisumu Campus ndio wawe wakipiga mashifts pale Russia hosy. That was 2019. Sasa kijana akaenda kutafuta nyumba pale Kondele I think that was blunder number 1 coz alipatana wrong rende huko.

So the guy during the last trisemester misses to attend a night shift and a supervisor gives him a fail. So in 2020 before covid picks, the guy is in fourth year. Nonetheless, Dean of Nursing comes and tells him that he must go back and redo the whole final sem in third year since he failed one of the units in that final Sem for absentism, which is a gross misconduct in a medical field. That's when hell broke loose. The guy transitioned to a full blown drug user; weed, wada, kujidunga, chang'aa, mafwaka, nakadhalika. The school was forced to call home we go and collect him and him to return only if he becomes clean.

My dad was so stressed with the issue till he succumbed in early 2021. Now the guy is still causing fracas pale nyumbani (some local peddlers kwa mtaa still sell him weed despite knowing his condition), threatening my mum, hiding and selling some household items, and demanding that apewe shamba yake ajipange nayo. Today I am informed that amemwaga CAN kwa borehole pale home which serves a good numberof our neighbours. Now my mum called me on whether to arrest the guy because she is now overwhelmed with his unbecoming behaviour as he may end up doing something worse. Should we tupa this guy ndani for character development? Wazazi saidieni.
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Pole sana ndugu and kudos for opening up. DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT call the police on him. That will be a temporary solution because I'm 100% sure you're thinking atalala ndani apewe adabu halafu arudi default setting arudi mtaani. That's akin to thrashing a dog so that it can mew instead of bark. Huruma ya mzazi will kick in day 2 akiwa ndani halafu matha akimbie police station aseme arudishiwe mtoto wake. Huyu jamaa akitoka ndani he'll be 10 times worse. I know this sounds impractical but the best solution to this ni aitiwe all kinds of relaz, aongeleshwe, afanyiwe mikutano(even if he himself atachorea) halafu pia wewe jaribu kumconvince aingie rehab. In short nakwambia show him love, the lot of you. Somehow, such people's senses kick in na huko mbele

Halafu A plain na mnapeleka mtu Nursing? Si hata mngechanga aende afanye med majuu ama mlipe para?
 
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Jimit

Jimit

Gargantuan
#12
#12
This reminds me of an article I read couple of days ago of a mom asking the court to lock up her son coz she feared for her life. You do not want the same to replicated, deal with nuisance. You remember that feeling in school we felt when bullies confronted us, thats exactly what your mom is going through and its a feeling I wouldnt even wish in my worst enemy
 
Lonely Lover

Lonely Lover

Village Elder
#13
#13
Titty Twister said:
Pole sana ndugu and kudos for opening up. DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT call the police on him. That will be a temporary solution because I'm 100% sure mnataka apewe adabu halafu arudi mtaa. That's akin to thrashing a dog so that it can mew instead of bark. Huruma ya mzazi will kick in after 2 days halafu matha akimbie police station aseme arudishiwe mtoto wake. Huyu jamaa akitoka ndani he'll be 10 times as worse. I know this sounds impractical but the best solution to this ni aitiwe all kinds of relaz, aongeleshwe, afanyiwe meetings(even if won't attend) halafu pia wewe jaribu kumconvince aingie rehab. In short nakwambia show him love, the lot of you. Somehow, such people's senses kick in na huko mbele

Halafu A plain na mnapeleka mtu Nursing? Si hata mngechanga aende afanye med majuu ama mlipe para?
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Ukona point...but unarealise huyo jamaa AMEKATA WATER SUPPLY YA HIS OWN MUM?
Ive seen this shit a number of times pahali drugs are not involved HUYU AKO JUU YA DRUGS AND GOD KNOWS WHATEVER ELSE...hii ni ticking time bomb...when the ninja snaps....
Huyo jamaa atolewe hapo....soma post ya dyson.

Mum hatafurahia but atleast She alive and SAFER.
 
Titty Twister

Titty Twister

Village Elder
#14
#14
Lonely Lover said:
Ukona point...but unarealise huyo jamaa AMEKATA WATER SUPPLY YA HIS OWN MUM?
Ive seen this shit a number of times pahali drugs are not involved HUYU AKO JUU YA DRUGS AND GOD KNOWS WHATEVER ELSE...hii ni ticking time bomb...when the ninja snaps....
Huyo jamaa atolewe hapo....soma post ya dyson.

Mum hatafurahia but atleast She alive and SAFER.
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Heri matha akose maji ama aingie 6feet deep?
 
messiahette

messiahette

Village Elder
#16
#16
Some people are destiny destroyers. Why did that supervisor give him a fail for missing only one night shift? It appears that fail is what triggered your brother completely. Take your brother out of that home environment maybe he can live with you for some time. See a psychiatrist as soon as possible. Do research your family history, is there mental illness in the family? Early to mid 20s is when schizophrenia shows up in young men.
 
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