As a man , love should flow, don't pump

#1
On Sunday i spent the better part of my day consoling and laying down strategy with my friend..
Towards the end of last year the guy was planning for a big wedding to show the love of his life how he loves her...he had just started the dowry paying and the parents had given their blessings and go-ahead for the wedding.
The wedding was to happen this Saturday. Then the bitch cancelled last week, she says she does not feel him anymore and she is not ready...

Then i remembered last year Jan the nigger sharing with me how the lady has many "advisors" and she can't listen to her... Kumbe hawa advisors ni "sponsors" at work.

Apparently my friend was doing all these dowry and wedding stuff, not because the lady wanted but because he wanted to win her from the "Influencers"..damn it..
Mapenzi hayalazimishwi.

And now to important issues, Wakamba hurudisha dowry??? at least so that my friend can get some closure.
 
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Purple

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#13
Men do this all the time. My cuzo was left kwa mataa on her wedding day. Imagine everyone is in the church all dressed up, music is playing hapo kwa background. The vendors had decorated the place, food and cake was all there. Alafu kimtu hakikucome. It was soo bad, I get chills when I remember the engulfing humiliation of that day. Saa hizo mimba yake ilikuwa ya 8 months! Some men are so heartless aki.

Your friend will be okay because my cousin also moved on and she’s now in a happy place.
 
#14
Juzi niliwaambia nyinyi mafala hapa that 99% of problems facing the boychild in kenya comes from having a DEFEATIST & SCARCITY MINDSET. As long as the boychild is not ready to pull himself up by the bootstraps, man up, chin up and play the field like his ancestors did, shida za kunguru zitaendelea kuwasumbua. Mtaendelea kulipa school fees, dowry, rent etc na bado hao madem tutawadinya tu on your behalf.
 
#15
Juzi niliwaambia nyinyi mafala hapa that 99% of problems facing the boychild in kenya comes from having a DEFEATIST & SCARCITY MINDSET. As long as the boychild is not ready to pull himself up by the bootstraps, man up, chin up and play the field like his ancestors did, shida za kunguru zitaendelea kuwasumbua. Mtaendelea kulipa school fees, dowry, rent etc na bado hao madem tutawadinya tu on your behalf.
Manze mimi nimesikia hizi story hadi kichwa inataka kuruka..sio watu kuuana, sio kulea watoto si wako, sio watu kuachwa on the altar on the wedding day ETC. As a guy in my 20s mi sitaoa. i will squander all my wealth on prostitutes na yenye itabaki nipeane charity before nikufe. People no longer respect the institution of marriage. On a personal level, my elder brother was so traumatized vile aliachwa kwa mataa na msichana mwenye alidhani amepata bibi.
 
#16
Manze mimi nimesikia hizi story hadi kichwa inataka kuruka..sio watu kuuana, sio kulea watoto si wako, sio watu kuachwa on the altar on the wedding day ETC. As a guy in my 20s mi sitaoa. i will squander all my wealth on prostitutes na yenye itabaki nipeane charity before nikufe. People no longer respect the institution of marriage. On a personal level, my elder brother was so traumatized vile aliachwa kwa mataa na msichana mwenye alidhani amepata bibi.
Nice move, but don't squander that cash on prostitutes. At this stage, Invest your money badala ku prop up kunguru, buying drinks for them ama kulipa vitu za ufala ka dowry. You will thank yourself in your mid 30s wakati madem rika lako and below watakua wanakutafuta hao wenyewe na unawatia kiste free of charge. Don't adopt a scarcity mindset na ufikirie wanawake wanaisha anytime soon.
 

Staff Member

Senior Villager
#17
Manze mimi nimesikia hizi story hadi kichwa inataka kuruka..sio watu kuuana, sio kulea watoto si wako, sio watu kuachwa on the altar on the wedding day ETC. As a guy in my 20s mi sitaoa. i will squander all my wealth on prostitutes na yenye itabaki nipeane charity before nikufe. People no longer respect the institution of marriage. On a personal level, my elder brother was so traumatized vile aliachwa kwa mataa na msichana mwenye alidhani amepata bibi.
Nice move, but don't squander that cash on prostitutes. At this stage, Invest your money badala ku prop up kunguru, buying drinks for them ama kulipa vitu za ufala ka dowry. You will thank yourself in your mid 30s wakati madem rika lako and below watakua wanakutafuta hao wenyewe na unawatia kiste free of charge. Don't adopt a scarcity mindset na ufikirie wanawake wanaisha anytime soon.
Basi si you Marry each other. I can officiate the ceremony by December mchunane sukuma porepore
 

Karoga

Village Elder
#19
Juzi niliwaambia nyinyi mafala hapa that 99% of problems facing the boychild in kenya comes from having a DEFEATIST & SCARCITY MINDSET. As long as the boychild is not ready to pull himself up by the bootstraps, man up, chin up and play the field like his ancestors did, shida za kunguru zitaendelea kuwasumbua. Mtaendelea kulipa school fees, dowry, rent etc na bado hao madem tutawadinya tu on your behalf.
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