his parents have been disagreeing for the last 3years and this is threatening the unity of their family. now his father is asking him to listen to the two parties and be the judge. Do you think it’s wise for him to interfere or just watch from the side line as the family collapse? He is the firstborn son. Kindly advise
The son will side with the mom. Waende judiciary.
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every argument ends up.with a sweet reunion sex …kijana atembeeee
He sides with one party, it becomes worse.
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Kijana asichukue mrengo wowote;ajipe shughuli.(Ndugu wawili au wale wana uhusiano wakigombana,chukua jembe ukalime)
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He can get two or three respectable members of the extended family or community and they should all listen to the story and together counsel the couple.
Otherwise on his own he will cause more harm than good.
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Apan tambua senior villager
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Agree…plus what he might hear in the course of both parties putting their ‘case’ might be adultery related and harm him emotionally since it involves a parent. Some things are best left alone to elders… Ata solve za wengine baadaye maishani…
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listen to the facts.
see through the bullshit.
then offer a remedy
Kesi kama hii ni ngumu…hao wazazi kwa ufupi wamechokeshana…kama ingekuwa majuu divorce wangalikuwa washaafanya…lakini most probably wamekua pamoja for soo long and its the only reason bado wanajiita familia…your friend should not be their judge unless he wants one of his parents to hate him
Awapige wote wawili, then awashow alirudi apate wame agree. Trust me.
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So many questions come to mind…How old is this first born; What prompted the father to seek his intervention and not village elders (wale wa ukweli), religious leaders of other elderly relatives; What is the root cause of the disagreement because some problems should be left for the spouses themselves to solve wakishindwa waseparete.
Ikifika point of involving the children hapo ni kubaya.
I was there and my mum used to apologise to me for telling me stuff about their relationship.
Asikubali wacha wajisort.
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how old is ‘your friend’ ?
kama amefika 18 years then ajue hafai kuingilia hio kesi
ukiona mzee ndie anaita kijana most likely he is innocent and the offended party…the offending wife is most likely pulling stories from when they were boyfriend and girlfriend in defense…
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That is horrible idea abort mission !!! I repeat abort… … a pal is going through the same bullshit and he is suffering.
kuna wakati kitambo wakati my wife alikuwa dem yangu, alinishika kwa dancefloor nikidara dem mwingine nikiwa mlevi autopilot…mpaka wa leo tukiwa na ugomvi ni lazima anikumbushe huo usiku…
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Hii fre Wifi ya Sonko Naona imefika Mathari Hospital…Isorait. What the son should do I get his uncles and aunts to"join" him as “amicus curiae” in this.
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The dad has probably brought in a second wife, eh? Wacha paka mzee ilambe maziwa. There’s nothing much the friend can do apart from just listen and go on about his/ her life as if the two quarreling parties are absolute strangers to them. Ukifika hiyo miaka, utaelewa kwanini mzee amechukua kamtu. Ni maisha. Just pray it does not kill him.