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Kana Kega

Village Elder
Confessions: How do I tell him I tested positive for HIV?

Simon and Boke

11th Mar 2019

I have been married for six years. We have a 4-year-old son and I am five months pregnant. A month ago on my regular clinical sessions, I turned out to be HIV positive. The doctor talked to me at length and encouraged me to tell my husband.
Up until today, I have not had the strength or courage to tell him about this. I have never been unfaithful to him and we went for a test about three years ago but it was negative. The biggest problem remains telling him about this. How do I do this? Knowing him, he will claim I am the one who infected him, especially because I travel a lot for work and he does not like this. He has even influenced his family to talk me into resigning so I can focus on my family.
Please help me deal with this. I am sure he will put all the blame on me and chase me away.