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madova

Village Elder
#1
Wakuu,i got a pressing issue which has not gone well with my open mind.
Of late the PM with her bunch of so called friends are attending these foreign celebrations.
We have clashed several times since i see them as useless spending sprees.
The issue is that they tend to run late in the night.
Am bitter because last week i was not around and same thing happened though i had given her a go ahead.
The issue is not respecting agreed time to head back and goal posts keeps on changining oooh hawajakata keki ooooh mwenye tunarudi naye bado .
All sort of excuses.
There is nothing like cheating along the way since its a close knit of female friends.
The boys are not happy with these tendencies,me included,
Swali ni kuwa is it alright PM wako akue anaenda hizi functions and comes or wakes you up late to go and pick her up?
I dont know if am overeacting but to me this is how things start to go south.
Am giving my demands later tonight of how she should behave as a muslim woman or take serious measures in due course.
Brothers and sisters hebu leteni maoni if you going through the same shit.
Gooday.
 

nairobilay

Village Sponsor
#7
Wee bana am 100% of that.The PM doesnot belong to that category at all.
its never 100%...sure the probability of her having an away match may be very low like 1% but its still there.

anyway back to the issue at hand. If it bothers you, then tell her and put your foot down on what time you expect her back in the house.
The other option is, feel zero and leave her. hata wewe usiulizwe maswali ukipotea and appear when you want.
 

madova

Village Elder
#8
its never 100%...sure the probability of her having an away match may be very low like 1% but its still there.

anyway back to the issue at hand. If it bothers you, then tell her and put your foot down on what time you expect her back in the house.
The other option is, feel zero and leave her. hata wewe usiulizwe maswali ukipotea and appear when you want.
I can see your point bro.
A foot has to be put down for once.gratitude.
 

madova

Village Elder
#13
You need to stamp your authority, otherwise they graduate as time goes by.
This has been my concern all the time.
Jana i even stoped halfway and almost told her its either my rules or she hits the highway.
If her parents came to know about this hell can break loose.
 
#14
As the owner of the house u can come late at wee hours depending on ur constitution, but mimi mtu ameenda bash happy zake then wake me at night i go pick her NEGATIVE sir, if need be we agree earlier on a convenient time and thats it, akidelay ajipange, plus she must know her place in the house, she needs to be there 24 7 366days unless ni wewe umemtoa, hii mambo ya usiku usiku bro? vile @nairobilay anasema ni ukweli mtupu
 

123tokambio

Village Sponsor
#20
its never 100%...sure the probability of her having an away match may be very low like 1% but its still there.

anyway back to the issue at hand. If it bothers you, then tell her and put your foot down on what time you expect her back in the house.
The other option is, feel zero and leave her. hata wewe usiulizwe maswali ukipotea and appear when you want.
Hapa ndio culmination ya shida zote za familia, haifai kufika hapo.
 

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