Fellow villagers,how often did you call your partner while dating.
Being an introvert I like my space my time and to say the least I only make calls when necessary.
Here she is,we at least chat often (which when i take long to reply to a chat all hell break loose) a call or two during the day.But she saying that is not enough.Mark you that when we talk on phone none lasts less than 30 minutes.We meet very often.
I decide to go for a day without calling her and it is assumed there is a problem.
two calls a day, each lasting atleast 30 minutes, thats approximately 60 minutes per day on phone, what do you guys discuss? and do you normally have anything left to discuss in the evenings , or do you turn the evenings into a phone staring contest :D:D:D
exactly one day I asked her what are we gonna talk about,ikasemekana am dismissing someone.Some last even more than an hour and most of them just before bedtime.
[ATTACH]100052[/ATTACH] thats women these days hawan life bila sisi.Hizo ndo mateso ya puthii nyingi siku hizi.ka attention seeking hoes so option nikitafuta places to make calls.Like while shitting …while waiting for food…while at a reception.Hio ndo gameplan
A friend of mine was facing the same predicament nikamwambia hio ni upuss. Calls twice/thrice a day kwani yeye ni mgonjwa?!
Four calls a week should be enough.
[ATTACH]100055[/ATTACH] No thats what is anoying ni kwamba anasaka romance kutoka kwako every min[ATTACH]100054[/ATTACH] .So the convo iko akward [ATTACH]100057[/ATTACH] cuz unajipata na pressure ya kubambisha convo cuz since you nutted her shit ain worth shit now[ATTACH]100053[/ATTACH]
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Mimi hawa watu naendanga mahali kwa corner naweka simu kwa mkono na hiyo mkono ingine ina cover hapo kwa mdomo namwambia, “I’ll call you back am in a meeting.”
Nakata na naendelea kuenjoy whisky kwa ofisi na boyz ama partner… sipendi hiyo upuzi ya kushinda ukinipigia mimi.
Hawa watu huwa na upussy sana. Wengine mi huona wakienda kila mahali pamoja, nashindwa hao hudiscuss nini wakiwa kwa nyumba. If you experience the same stuff, together, all day every day, what the hell do you talk about? Ama ni ku-recap events zenye mlipitia pamoja? Sooo effing boring.
Kuna kengine nilikua nadhania nimeangukia, superhot babe. Mimi ndio nilikua topic of discussion, kila mtu akidai vile I’m a lucky nigga. Lakini two months in I was ready to sullenda. As in nirikua nimeshoka. Mbaybe anataka a dictate terms, how now? Ati morning kitu ya kwanza akiamka anataka kuona text zako, zile za “Morning sunshine/princess”. Usiku mtu aanze kuchat saa mbili, saa tano bado chat hazijaisha, kwani ni kazi nalipwa? Akikam job ni kucomplain na kumek tu-demands twa ufala. Ati “captain obvious…aki I don’t like that song, niekee blablabla…hawa watoto wanapiga kelele, waambie wanyamaze…leo si utanipa lappy niende nayo home kuwatch movie?” Na saizo hiyo lappy ni ya job.
Finally nilimwambia “Do me a favor please, gerrarrahia.”
am not trying to freak you out, neither am i telling you to run for the hills, however you need to tame and lower her expectations in terms of call time and frequency
