can someone please help me understand why a man would reject his own children? I’ve found this hard to understand
nipe kuma kwanza
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There are plenty of reasons to reject one’s own children but only one reason to accept them.
Kuna watu hawapendi responsibilities.
Imagine jamaa analala kwa hao na boxer na vest akicheza playstation the whole day akikula pesa ya rentals za wazazi wake.
Do you expect such to care for kids?
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What’s the reason to accept?
Hiyo ndio kitu kila mtu kijijini anatafuta, ukipata utuitie
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Cc @kamnjoro
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Evolution has the answer. Men can sire thousands of children unlike women. Because women can’t rely on quantity to increase the chances of their genes’ survival they must rely on quality which means being very discriminating when selecting a mate and investing heavily in the raising of offspring. Out of the many children a man can possibly sire he only needs to be invested in a few and so he becomes a deadbeat to the others
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Depends on how the kids were sired and circumstances involved . Was it a trap YES/NO?if no did he later doubt the kids not to be his yes /no?, if no did she cheat?yes or no? If no then something must have happened to inflict dire pain in his mind to seek rejection as an ultimate decision .OR simple he doesn’t want more responsibilities.
Growing up I saw our female dog rejecting it’s own puppies to a point of killing them one by one ,
how many times have we seen women dumping their own kids ?to a point some even abort .Laying such blame on men while we see countless women seeking legal means of validating termination of life of their own offspring seems obsolete to me .I’m not justifying to be ok but …I’m just saying . It’s two way
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it depends if the man was trapped by pregnancy,which is the norm these days,especially if the guy is financially stable,ladies are now going to extremes of getting unplanned pregnancies especially after telling the man that they are on the pill or some bullshit then come back later saying they have no clue how they fell .
Labda alifanya DNA akapata alicheswo
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And become a ktalk crusader against single women, whom he made. SMH
Well received.
Ni irresponsibility. Nothing more.
Leta hekaya
Wewe hushinda ukiitisha hekaya have you loaded yours, remind me please
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VE eka avatar ya maana…
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Simple, kama damu haisikizani una wacha
Suggest me one . Iv been changing mpaka nimeshindwa