Coparenting after separation

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#1
Hi ladies. Kindly advise me. My husband and I had been married for 9 yes but we separated beginning of this year. My ex hubby came to pick the kids over the weekend as he wanted to spend time with them. Now my daughter who's almost 9 yrs came and told me that "daddy took us to two rivers with auntie and she is very beautiful. Auntie has bought me a beautiful bike I can ride when I visit dad." I asked her if it was her dads sister but she said it wasn't. O stayed calm . Few days later my ex hubby posted on WhatsApp status with a lady caption reading LOML. I asked my daughter if that was the Auntie who bought the bike and she said yes. I was so hurt when I remembered that I did nothing wrong to this man. Now yesterday evening he sent me a message requesting to pick the kids over the weekend. I haven't replied yet as I feel what he is doing isn't right because I feel the kids haven't even had time to understand what is happening between us. Will I be mean to refuse him to pick the kids for the weekend?
 

Masgwembe

Village Elder
#2
Those kids' lives is about to be messed up by a feelings driven, envious woman. Hope she doesn't poison them against their father.

Akubali tu she's been replaced with such great expediency and now the man is living in bliss as she wallows in misery.
 

Matho

Village Elder
#3
Those kids' lives is about to be messed up by a feelings driven, envious woman. Hope she doesn't poison them against their father.

Akubali tu she's been replaced with such great expediency and now the man is living in bliss as she wallows in misery.
Living in bliss others wallowing in misery
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TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#4
Those kids' lives is about to be messed up by a feelings driven, envious woman. Hope she doesn't poison them against their father.

Akubali tu she's been replaced with such great expediency and now the man is living in bliss as she wallows in misery.
She brought the kids into the world with the expectation that they would be raised in a family . Let him have kids with his new catch and raise those ones since that is the woman he wants to be with. No way he will have his cake and eat it.
 

Masgwembe

Village Elder
#5
She brought the kids into the world with the expectation that they would be raised in a family . Let him have kids with his new catch and raise those ones since that is the woman he wants to be with. No way he will have his cake and eat it.
No way of deriving the pleasure of accusing him of being a deadbeat/ absentee father. Yet you want to deny him his parental rights? That's the very definition of wanting to have your cake and eating it.
 

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