Now wen your baby daddy becomes a dead BEAT what should you do? Am in a group where Ive become a pariah for suggesting that you just think of him as dead instead of kutraumatise watoto by forcing them on a man who doesnt recognize/want them. I mean if the guy had died cha ukweli si ungesimamia hawa watoi peke yako? Seriously,why do women like victimising/embarrassing themselves and their kids in the name of demanding support especially financially? I remember working somewea I would hear gals asking baby daddy on phone. When did you last see the baby? And am like????!!! Kwani ni lazma. If someone doesn't want they don't want just leave them alone and tell your mind that this person is dead n u must make do as single mom. Ladies you cannot force someone to be responsible kama hataki. Even ladies abdicate kids especially special needs kids but men take the kids and just move on. Why is it so hard for us as women to just let go n move on. Btw men why do you abdicate parental responsibilities?