Dealing with divorce/separation

Senior talkers,I have a problem. One of my close buddies recently separated/divorced with this wife of 2 years after some irreconcilable differences cropped up between them. Hawakuwa na watoto bado but my guy is super depressed and has taken to drinking heavily and ferking hoes with no abandon. He is suicidal especially baada ya kujua that his ex is already pushing with another nigga. I even fear he will end up spiraling into the deadly abyss akiendelea hivi. Najua hapa hakuwezi kosa a few divorced/separated talkers - especially those who had invested heavily emotionally and financially in the union. Tusadie huyu jamaa,how did u guys pick up the pieces and moved on?

Only the strong will survive in this bad world.
You are a weak man, hauwezi saidiwa ata na Prophet Owuor.
Na kama wangekuwa na watoto and he has to walk away from them?
Si angekuwa ashajiua?..
Mtu bure huyo.

Step ya kwanza shift mtaa by 180 degrees. Kama unaishi kangemi enda pipeline, kama ni side za kibera enda Githurai. Yaani ubadilishe hadi zile barabara unatumia.

My guy hahaha, it looks like he had loved her. Saa hii haezi amini ati kuna jogoo ingine kwa kibanda

Mimi naona kama ni wewe.

Find a new passion/hobby. Cocaine, a sport, road trips, more work, study, weeed…

zii,not me.

Kwani hio mapenzi ukuwaje hadi a full man anakuwa suicidal? Can’t be me. Mimi upenda tu kidogo, hio ya kuingia na miguu yote niliachia Soap operas.

Atafute dem mwingine , when he gets another one the feelings for the ex wife will fade

The legendary @Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe , I salute you. Take note of the following:-
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[li]Separation and divorce are two different things,[/li][li]Show your friend to this wretched place apewe advice,[/li][li]Kunguru hafugiki,[/li][li]Tell your friend to savour the new found freedom. Some of us pray daily mabibi watuondokee but hawang’atuki,[/li][li]Hata rafiki ajinyonge, ex bado atanyanduliwa tuu,[/li][li]Atombee Malaya kabisa. Itamwondolea stress,[/li][li]Nimechoka kutype.[/li][/ol]

  1. As with any other deal, NEVER WALK AWAY FROM THE TABLE UNTIL YOU ARE READ TO WALK AWAY FROM THE TABLE.
  2. As every man should know, your ego will punish you ruthlessly if you expose it to situations that will make it suffer. Refer to 1 above.
  3. Since the damage is already done, let’s offer solutions. @upepo above is onto something. MOVE AWAY FROM THE AREA/SITUATIONS that expose you to your ex. Block her phone number and all social media accounts. Work tirelessly to improve your life - join a fucking gym. lift weights. Increase your portfolio. Charge ahead and DO NOT for a moment let your thoughts entertain your ex. Remove every trace of her in your life. FORGET her.

In as much as guys would love to hear a magical solution to this, THERE IS NO MAGICAL SOLUTION to this. Any man that shall expose their nature-endowed ego to the risk of pain shall get what they deserve. If he shall kill himself or do a Kinuthia-Shoka thing, nature does not care.

Romantic love is one of the greatest lies perpetrated on humans. It has made Hollywood movie Directors and studio executives into millionaires. Think about it. Who taught you how to love your woman? From the dates and the shit? From school? NO. Intellectual movie directors and studio execs did. They KNOW you are dumb and they made a buck out of it.

STOP FUCKING FALLING IN LOVE WITH WOMEN! THERE IS NO SUCH THING. WOMEN CANNOT LOVE A MAN THE WAY A MAN WANTS TO BE LOVED.

You can love a woman, but for FUCK’S SAKE don’t make it romantic love. Don’t expect a woman to love you back. When you do you are exposing your ego to risk and my fren you will get what you deserve - Pain and misery.

Anybody interested in Private consultation at a fee DM me.

Beta male

Seems like that mtumia loved that woman more than he loved himself hiyo tayari ni hatia.

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone.

Love is for the birds.

There’s a process of pain one has to go through, but it should not include self damage.
What your buddy is doing is acting like a small kid who’s mummy has refused to buy them ice cream at the supermarket, equivalent to falling to the ground, screaming and throwing tantrums because things aren’t going his way.
Man up, change your area code…

i salute u too brotha!

solid post man

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