Depression: why guys are hacking their partners.

Shaka

Village Elder
#3
Equality and unemployment/underemployment is the main cause of this problem. But boychild hana bahati, he finds himself a failure to his family and spouse. He tries everything, gives all he has but it isn't enough. He ends up depressed and suicidal.
Unless we teach young men to act like men in developed world, we are driving them suicidal. They have to be taught that with equality it is nolonger for them to financially take care of girlfriends, if you go for a date share the bill. Date older women who are financially stable, wachia slay queen masponsors
 
#6
Depression is just a scapegoat... This is not the main reason for these hacking incidents..

The real reason is that yougins are unaware of the reality of the dating game. Currently, the boychild is loosing and will continue to loose in the foreseeable future..

Men have to come into terms with the importance of their individual happiness.. What makes you happy? It's not a woman, it's not marriage, and it will never be children.. These things are the domain of women, stop thinking they're the domains of men..

A man's happiness stems from different things: hobbies, work, increasing your expertise etc.. Things that give you PURPOSE

A family will never give you purpose, NEVER.. That's a woman's purpose, YOUR PURPOSE is different. find it and you'll find your happiness; hizi story za depression and hacking will end if you do this.

NB. Chasing pu**y is not purpose, you're simply granting it more value that it has.. You're granting it power over you
 
#8
Equality and unemployment/underemployment is the main cause of this problem. But boychild hana bahati, he finds himself a failure to his family and spouse. He tries everything, gives all he has but it isn't enough. He ends up depressed and suicidal.
Unless we teach young men to act like men in developed world, we are driving them suicidal. They have to be taught that with equality it is nolonger for them to financially take care of girlfriends, if you go for a date share the bill. Date older women who are financially stable, wachia slay queen masponsors
Nani amekwambia older women ndio wanataka mentally unstable brokeasses??? Wee!!!!
 
#9
Depression is just a scapegoat... This is not the main reason for these hacking incidents..

The real reason is that yougins are unaware of the reality of the dating game. Currently, the boychild is loosing and will continue to loose in the foreseeable future..

Men have to come into terms with the importance of their individual happiness.. What makes you happy? It's not a woman, it's not marriage, and it will never be children.. These things are the domain of women, stop thinking they're the domains of men..

A man's happiness stems from different things: hobbies, work, increasing your expertise etc.. Things that give you PURPOSE

A family will never give you purpose, NEVER.. That's a woman's purpose, YOUR PURPOSE is different. find it and you'll find your happiness; hizi story za depression and hacking will end if you do this.

NB. Chasing pu**y is not purpose, you're simply granting it more value that it has.. You're granting it power over you
I dunno what you are talking about because ALL humans are social animals and progeny is always more important for male members of any species hence the reason why most male animals are prettier than the females so as to entice them to perpetuate their genes. Hizi Red Peels Cult Lies will be the undoing of many of you who've swallowed it ,hook,line and sinker. Dont just recite things, think critically,read widely. The power to reason. I know a guy who was severely depressed after losing his job few months down the road he got a son, the difference is like night and day,he is driven,he is happy, like Ive never seen him.
 
#13
The thing is do not marry. Marriage is a scam. Read the 'Manipulated man'.


You are gaining nothing where you are working your ass-off to provide but rather than an appreciation, your wife is demanding for more.
Have you ever done background anthropology to determine WHY marriage is in human society ama kazi yake ni kuimba red peels dogmas like a parrot? The human baby is not like other babies in the animal kingdom who are born and they start walking , thats why theres marriage dufus. Read sociology and anthropology and biology and genetics. Acha kucram a stupid loser's philosophy's that can not add value to your mind. Can you evaluate things critically rather than be such a simpleton that you just regurgitate very simplistic worldview like your parents dint take you to school. God gave you a brain,use it.
 
#14
Depression is just a scapegoat... This is not the main reason for these hacking incidents..

The real reason is that yougins are unaware of the reality of the dating game. Currently, the boychild is loosing and will continue to loose in the foreseeable future..

Men have to come into terms with the importance of their individual happiness.. What makes you happy? It's not a woman, it's not marriage, and it will never be children.. These things are the domain of women, stop thinking they're the domains of men..

A man's happiness stems from different things: hobbies, work, increasing your expertise etc.. Things that give you PURPOSE

A family will never give you purpose, NEVER.. That's a woman's purpose, YOUR PURPOSE is different. find it and you'll find your happiness; hizi story za depression and hacking will end if you do this.

NB. Chasing pu**y is not purpose, you're simply granting it more value that it has.. You're granting it power over you
This. Nothing else needs to be added.
 
#15
How Olive Mugenda Walked Her Husband To Suicide
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by Cyprian, Is Nyakundi 3 months ago

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Just a day into the new year, several horrified guests were witnesses to distressing scenes where an elderly man jumped and plummeted to his death from the sixth floor of Nyeri’s imposing White Rhino Hotel.

The man, a prominent member of society had strangely spent new years alone and away from family with reports suggesting police were Part of a intricate plot to cover up the incident, going as far as sealing off his hotel room and probably consficating suicide notes which may have pointed to the cause of his grave actions.

It did not help matters that there were studious attempts to mislead the public on the cause of the apparent suicide of one of Kenya’s foremost academics and father of four who, it later emerged, was the long suffering husband to former Kenyatta University Vice Chancellor and Commissioner of Judicial Service Commission Professor Olive Mugenda.

Although the Mugenda family attempted to indicate that he died after a short illness, the truth, as we reported, is Prof Mugenda was suffering depression which likely led him to commit suicide.

The late Abel Muhenda was a professor of statistics and research at USIU, and a renowned scholar, researcher, author and quantity surveyor. His equally successful wife Olive Mugenda who served as Vice Chancellor of Kenyatta University before retirement and later winning a presidential appointment as a member of the JSC.

Abel’s suicide is now subject of intense speculation after family who seemed to be aided by police reported false claims suggesting he died following a short illness.

An enquiry has lifted a lid on a lopesided marriage in which the billionaire wife domineered the husband for decades.


Prof Mugenda’s children Christopher Nyoike (left), Albert Gitau, Lynda Wambui and Angela
Sad as Abel Mugenda’s suicide maybe, we learnt from extended family members that the Mugenda’s decades of marriage was a pressure cooker waiting to explode given Olive’s spectacular colourful love life and string of extramarital affairs.

To make matters worse, Abel had confided to close friends how he was subjected to cruelty, denial of conjugal rights and abuse based on trivial issues. It reached a point he could not get the meals he wanted in his family home.

The same close friends, stopping short of demanding an inquest, revealed the late Abel loved his family and was extremely protective of them and would never have wanted his children to suspect that the parents were living a dead relationship.

Situation was so bad, Abel was forced to spend the festive season at a hotel alone and away from family home because his wife had ‘other plans’ and had poisoned the minds of the children against their father.



Other information that has come across shows that the Mugenda’s were undergoing financial stress due to the wife’s insistence on managing her own money since she was much more wealthier and politically well connected than the husband. Mrs Mugenda accumulated wealth running into billions during her decade long tenure at Kenyatta University.

The late professor stood faithfully by his wife and children despite undergoing tremendous psychological torture at the hands of his fiercely independent wife Olive Mugenda especially during her tenure as Vice Chancellor of Kenyatta University. He was reduced to a very lonely observer as his wife immersed herself in what she called her career development.

As professors friends and family organise for his sombre funeral, it remains to be seen how his widow will handle the situation having misled the president and the public with on the professor’s cause of death.
 
#16
Have you ever done background anthropology to determine WHY marriage is in human society ama kazi yake ni kuimba red peels dogmas like a parrot? The human baby is not like other babies in the animal kingdom who are born and they start walking , thats why theres marriage dufus. Read sociology and anthropology and biology and genetics. Acha kucram a stupid loser's philosophy's that can not add value to your mind. Can you evaluate things critically rather than be such a simpleton that you just regurgitate very simplistic worldview like your parents dint take you to school. God gave you a brain,use it.
My IQ is too good for anthropology and sociology.
 
#18
Women become very bitter when they realize men are slowly swallowing the red pill, seeing things for what they really are, and checking out of the marriage slavery plantation. Marriage is a VERY big scam, ask any man over 50 atakuambia.


I have never seen more frustrated men than those who are divorced/separated just after the prime of their lives. Right from birth, a woman is tailored to use the best years of your life raising her progeny whom she effectively radicalizes against you halafu anakuacha kwa mataa ukishazeeka. Chances are even your own kids will be ashamed of u in your sunset years.

The FACT REMAINS that ALL MEN DIE ALONE regardless of whether they married or lived as bachelors.
 
#19
Women become very bitter when they realize men are slowly swallowing the red pill, seeing things for what they really are, and checking out of the marriage slavery plantation. Marriage is a VERY big scam, ask any man over 50 atakuambia.


I have never seen more frustrated men than those who are divorced/separated just after the prime of their lives. Right from birth, a woman is tailored to use the best years of your life raising her progeny whom she effectively radicalizes against you halafu anakuacha kwa mataa ukishazeeka. Chances are even your own kids will be ashamed of u in your sunset years.

The FACT REMAINS that ALL MEN DIE ALONE regardless of whether they married or lived as bachelors.
All I am getting from this reply is that the sole purpose for humans, like other animals and plants, is to procreate and that you want to go against this purpose. Will you win against nature?
 
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