SO today on the commute I found myself listening to Ghetto Radio after my cd player jammed. I found King Kafu,Maji Maji and another gentleman a guest on , the guest was narrating how hes singlehandly raising his 3 kids as in the wife and him separated and he lives with all 3 of the kids,apparently there was even a 4th born who died accidently while at 3 years. The mom has unlimited access to the kids. But the guy lives with the kids. He has taken 2 to boarding and has no househelp. The hustles this guy is going through to raise these kids is insane. The youngest who has to be taken to Kindergarten is out all day while he works then he gets home and has to be the mother ,bath,feed,entertain the kid. So for a good 10 minutes the studio hosts tried to establish why did the two break up. The guest couldnt give a tangible answer. They just stopped loving each other then stopped having sex. Bas! Like you could feel the guy struggling to come up with even that one answer as to why they have 4 kids and had to break up. So currently both have moved on and seeing other people. Most callers were of the opinion most people nowadays are not giving marriage and the importance of kids growing up in a two parent home with traditional family values the importance or priority or seriousness it deserves. Ive seen many of my relatives also calling it a day over flimsy excuses for lack of a better word because love disappearing to me doesnt sound like a reason. Whats the threshold of breaking up a marriage? Should you ship off your kids to kindergarten then boarding schools at the first opportunity because love disappeared? King Kafu and Maji kept asking the guest what his definition of love is and he couldnt even articulate it. I can see now why kids are burning domitories and becoming hardcore drug addicts by the time theyre out of high school. Our fiber has completely broken down ! And then what will become of these kids after they go through all this trauma because parents need to find love?
