So This evening I had a heated conversation with my wife on having more kids, since we only have one Daughter. According to her she needs at least we have 4 kids, 2 gals and 2 boys. Citing that I cannot be a real man without a son.
On my part am more than contented with my Lovely Daughter, the topic has sparked a lot of trouble hadi supper ikawa suspended. It all started with the topic of Family planning. What’s your take guys. How should one handle this subject in a subtle manner.
She wants a son. Reverse psychology 101.
No jakimio No Kijiji
@BringbackMakonika
uko na finances ya mtoi mwingine,ama atakuja na sahani yake?
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a friend had a daughter , the wife pressured on having a son, he got another daughter, then the pressure mounted again , a third daughter came in.The 4th pressure came in, jamaa alikataa. he has had enough he said. But she wanted a son , more pressure jamaa gave in then boom 4th daughter came in. When she tried again for the 5th pressure, alilipuliwa kofi and asked her" are you willing to help me pay the fees for all these children?"
Moral of the story: stick to your guns. you will end up having many daughters and no son. Sometimes if you over-listen these women utauumia. They reason emotionally and not factual. A kid is a kid, girls are even better because they end up remembering parents when parents get old. Get it from the horse’ mouth.
No jakimio No Kijiji
@BringbackMakonika
tia mtu mimba kwa iko nene… mimi niko na watatu soon nichape wa nne
Remember the late Annan? His first name was Kofi. You may use that info as you wish.
Bibi akitaka mtoto pea yeye Ama utasaidiwa na sisi . am always ready .
Target yangu Ni 30 Niko 7
If you can’t afford another child then let her rant till her jaws hurt. Mtoto hukuja na gharama and since you’re the man in the house, and the person who’ll shoulder the financial obligations, you have to do the logical thinking. Your wife at this point is being driven by emotion. Handle her.
It is a sacrilage in African society to have only one child saitan
Gays kama @Kimakia na MGTOW kama @Karoga hatuna watoto na hatusumbui, infact life is so peaceful and rich bila nagging nigglets…kids are nothing but a furcking pain in the ass.
Humbwer hii kwa hao watoto 30, 29 watakuwa malaya na wezi wa pale downtown. The last one will b gay like @Kimakia
so exactly why do people have children? I have never heard anyone their life improved a lot by having kids. in fact, most are miserable and on the verge of depression
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Your daughter is lonely, ongeza mmoja na chapter ufunge. yeye ndo atajipea huyo son? Ukiongeza wanne na wakue madem atafanya?
Ambia wife aache kuinfluenciwa na wamama wazee,
lakini akiwa kama wewe afadhali Kukaa bila ama Bibi azae kiondo atakuwa anaenda nayo sokoni ama karai afulie nguo
mwanaume mzima unalala njaa juu ya umeffi topic about kutozaa mtoto mvulana…that is high disrespect to you…“ati wewe sio real man without a son?”…shiiii…
As a man,you have to make crucial decisions while trying to maintain unity.Be careful because if she is insisting for a boy and your genes if for girls,chunga sana atapeana nje.
Mimi nilipitia shida mingi sana being the last born of 7. Due to this i swore never to get more than one kid. My first born is now 13 yrs. Shida ya hawa mabibi zetu, its listening to their buddies without reasoning. I was doing very well ,bibi akapata mawaidha and birthed a son last yr, you all know that story of rearing one kid.
Mnajua vile economy iko , na buiz ziko down. Maisha inanipileke mbio saai, a thing i had prayed never to endure again.