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CORNERS

Village Elder
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i just watched the news and they had this story of some ngo director beating up his wife.First thing that came to my mind was disgust ,then after a while i thought to myself ,dont judge.!!
Lemme give you a brief history of why the dont judge the man part popped up,im not saying i agree with domestic violence but i also think thres two sides to a coin,and obviously we are inclined as humans to lean on the womans side they being the 'weaker' sex.
I had this chic,together for two years, mapenzi mingi nini nini,we ended up moving in together .That was mistake number one.We used to have arguements but we could solve them in a subtle way like any other couple would do.Wacha the chic gets a job,things just started changing yani,dem alikuwa tu ananijibu like she wants,daent wash clad,daent clean the house ,anatoka job jioni ata hapiki..anabuy fries anakam kama amedoze.Na mimi nimelipa rent nalipa bills zote.The arguements started intensifying yani.Dem angechukua the smallest things anaziblow out of proportion,alafu since we used to live in a flat she would raise her voice for the neighbours to hear every little thing she was saying,saizo najaribu kumtuliza namshow aongee in a low tone.
Sa day moja nakam ivi kejani late after kunywa moja juu nimechoka na makelele zake..saizo sex life iko innexistent juu ata you arent turned on by her anymore juu kila saa ni makelele..maze what she told me yani sjui how it hapenned but i just couldnt hold it back anymore,she sed it so loud i heard my neighbour react.I only realised when my hand landed on her cheek.It was a really quick hard slap.Followed by a deafening silence ya like 3 seconds.just one slap.and that was the first time i ever hit a girl yani.
Wacha dem aanze theatrics ungedhani ni mtu anauliwa kejani..saizo ananinyeshea blows but namshikilia tu najaribu kumtuliza...


long otory short we ended up breaking up.wanawake kisirani wako ,na wa kutafuta kipigo pia wako.Ukiona dem wako anakupush tu umnyoroshe boss wachana na iyo nyangau uatajipata jela bure
 
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uwesmake

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MIMI BIBI KUMBE AMECATCH FEELINGS ATI SIKUMPELEKA WEDDING FULANI NA SAA HIZO NIMEMPEA RUHUSA AENDE JIONI TUNAENDA OUT NAMEZA GILBEYS POLEPOLE KUMBE BIBI ANANIMEZEA BLACK ICE NA KUANZA KUFURA MABESTE WAKAKUJA TUKAENDELEA , MIMI HUYO KWA COUNTER GILBEYS IMEONA MOMO NIKAANZA WAYA KUMBE BIBI AKO RIDHO ,, HAPO HAPO MATUSI NIKAKUNJA MKIA NA KURUDI KWA TABLE ,MATUSI ZIKASHINDA UNGA NIKASEMA TUENDEE HOME, NYUMBANI NYAHUNYO GILBEYS ILIFUNGUA, MAJIRANI WANAONGEA HIYO STORY ONE YEAR LATER NA BIBI HAJAWAI FUNGUA MDOMO TENA

MORAL OF THE STORY HUYO MLUHYA WETU ANALEMEWA BURE , MABIBI WAKIKUYU WAMETUSUMBUA SANA
 
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My two cents kwa hiyo hekaya yako, first hama kwa hio nyumba ya mabati unaishi so that neighbours dont hear ukisomewa. Nyumba ya mawe iko sound proof. Second ukitaka kuchapa dem koffi learn from the best eg Kidero. Third I never believe in beating a woman especially kama sio bibi yako, simply walk away ama fukuza yeye. Ni hayo tu
 

Ka-Buda

Village Elder
#4
I may regret saying this but faq it;
Wanawake saa zingine they seek a good kichapo as a matter of attention seeking and just to be reminded who is in charge.
I dare any man here who has been living in the same house in a relationship with a woman for over 3 years to tell me that they have not done something/anything that may be considered as "violence against a woman" ata kama ni kumskuma against the wall by her neck just to get her away from you or the most popular one for me was grabbing the car keys from her hands nikisema nataka kwenda to get away from her na anakataa na keys yet ni yeye ameanza show!
3months on bado anadai ati mkono inauma juu nilijaribu kuivunja...SMFH!!!
 

CORNERS

Village Elder
#6
My two cents kwa hiyo hekaya yako, first hama kwa hio nyumba ya mabati unaishi so that neighbours dont hear ukisomewa. Nyumba ya mawe iko sound proof. Second ukitaka kuchapa dem koffi learn from the best eg Kidero. Third I never believe in beating a woman especially kama sio bibi yako, simply walk away ama fukuza yeye. Ni hayo tu
wewe inakaa hujai fikiwa mwisho na dem..i used to live at the fifth floor saizo kuna like 30 haos in the building..nakusho ata watu wako ground floor walikuwa wametosheka na izo bullshit za kelele zake kila saa
 

Ingia

Village Elder
#8
Saa ingine its the only thing left for a man. Juu wanawake wengine sasa hamtashindana kwa maneno. The other alternative ni kumfukuza. Lakini utamfukuza aje na watoto wako hapo?

I can only say that ni lazma ukae na mtu for several years before umuoe. otherwise you are in for a painful life na divorce. Kama hiyo yako @CORNERS ni excellent that you didnt marry her. That was the ultimate test.
Most people these days move in together within months and before you know it babies are coming in. And fast.
 

Web Dev

Village Elder
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MIMI BIBI KUMBE AMECATCH FEELINGS ATI SIKUMPELEKA WEDDING FULANI NA SAA HIZO NIMEMPEA RUHUSA AENDE JIONI TUNAENDA OUT NAMEZA GILBEYS POLEPOLE KUMBE BIBI ANANIMEZEA BLACK ICE NA KUANZA KUFURA MABESTE WAKAKUJA TUKAENDELEA , MIMI HUYO KWA COUNTER GILBEYS IMEONA MOMO NIKAANZA WAYA KUMBE BIBI AKO RIDHO ,, HAPO HAPO MATUSI NIKAKUNJA MKIA NA KURUDI KWA TABLE ,MATUSI ZIKASHINDA UNGA NIKASEMA TUENDEE HOME, NYUMBANI NYAHUNYO GILBEYS ILIFUNGUA, MAJIRANI WANAONGEA HIYO STORY ONE YEAR LATER NA BIBI HAJAWAI FUNGUA MDOMO TENA

MORAL OF THE STORY HUYO MLUHYA WETU ANALEMEWA BURE , MABIBI WAKIKUYU WAMETUSUMBUA SANA
Coomer hii Uko retarded ama nini?write like a human being not like a monkey on the keyboard.

Dem alikutusi aje lakini?
 

Ice_Cube

Village Chief
#11
what I can say is my bro. is the most diplomatic gentleman I have come across, he oozes chivalry and but his now wife managed to push him to slapping her. how? I dont know
 
#14
sometimes violence is inevitable
some can really push you to the limits.
If you decide to beat her then ensure its a thorough beating and ensure you topdress it with a mind blowing love making, hio story itaishia hapo.
 
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