The only way we can help you is if you give us a full narrative of how the whole thing happened.
Where and how did you meet, how did you arrive to the conclusion that she is a "kienyeji", where did the match take place, how many strokes dd you give her, what was her response, did you sniff at the punani before you started????
Without the details pambana na hali yako peke yako na uwache umalaya.