Elders please advise
There is this girl I tried wooing while she was in college. For 2 straight years I tried to seduce her but alinikataa, we would go out drink and do stuff but when I tried moving towards the honey jar she would say a big no. One day one time she gave in but said not in my house so I got a lodging and devoured her like a hungry hyena and because of the long goose chase coupled with intoxication it was a dry fry. She was very young and sweet then, you all know how a 21yr old kipsigis girl from kipkelion can taste like. Supprisingly the following day she sent me a text that we could go out for dinner and I assumed she was now fully mine, we went had dinner but she refused pombe and when we were on our way back I asked her if we were sleeping in my place but she dropped the bomb shell and told me she didn't love me and whatever happened the previous night was a big mistake that she was not going to redpeat. I was heartbroken but anyway as a man who had tasted cookie I told her it was alright. I dropped her at her campus and Supprisingly she offered a deep kiss as we parted. That night she send me a short text saying she was sorry for disappointing me but she wanted to remain a good friend. I accepted and we moved on. We kept going out like usual but the honey jar was now out of discussion. Supprisingly she told all her friends and mine that we were dating and she would fight off admirers like a real gf. Now when she cleared college I assisted her secure a 6 months internship in some Eritrean company next to our offices but with zero expectations. She cleared the internship and got married to some kisii guy who works in a certain bank. Now the real headache happened, the kisii guy was transferred to Busia, they moved to Busia but after 4 months the girl got employed by the Eritrean company and had to come back to nairobi. Immediately she called me and said she wanted to meet me to say thanks for the connection I agreed, we met over dinner and she thanked me profusely as we left the place we were having dinner, she suggested we meet again the following day. When we met we had a drink and a small discussion and she narrated how her husband was stingy to her how she regrets marrying him and how she would wish she had accepted to be my girlfriend since I was a good man. She later requested that I loan her some money to buy a few household items since the husband had bought her only a mattress and two plastic chairs. I promised her a 20k loan which I gave after a week. Now the real headache is that the girl is now getting closer and closer every day and she seems to be offering the cookie jar to me. But I feel I should not partake considering her past record
There is this girl I tried wooing while she was in college. For 2 straight years I tried to seduce her but alinikataa, we would go out drink and do stuff but when I tried moving towards the honey jar she would say a big no. One day one time she gave in but said not in my house so I got a lodging and devoured her like a hungry hyena and because of the long goose chase coupled with intoxication it was a dry fry. She was very young and sweet then, you all know how a 21yr old kipsigis girl from kipkelion can taste like. Supprisingly the following day she sent me a text that we could go out for dinner and I assumed she was now fully mine, we went had dinner but she refused pombe and when we were on our way back I asked her if we were sleeping in my place but she dropped the bomb shell and told me she didn't love me and whatever happened the previous night was a big mistake that she was not going to redpeat. I was heartbroken but anyway as a man who had tasted cookie I told her it was alright. I dropped her at her campus and Supprisingly she offered a deep kiss as we parted. That night she send me a short text saying she was sorry for disappointing me but she wanted to remain a good friend. I accepted and we moved on. We kept going out like usual but the honey jar was now out of discussion. Supprisingly she told all her friends and mine that we were dating and she would fight off admirers like a real gf. Now when she cleared college I assisted her secure a 6 months internship in some Eritrean company next to our offices but with zero expectations. She cleared the internship and got married to some kisii guy who works in a certain bank. Now the real headache happened, the kisii guy was transferred to Busia, they moved to Busia but after 4 months the girl got employed by the Eritrean company and had to come back to nairobi. Immediately she called me and said she wanted to meet me to say thanks for the connection I agreed, we met over dinner and she thanked me profusely as we left the place we were having dinner, she suggested we meet again the following day. When we met we had a drink and a small discussion and she narrated how her husband was stingy to her how she regrets marrying him and how she would wish she had accepted to be my girlfriend since I was a good man. She later requested that I loan her some money to buy a few household items since the husband had bought her only a mattress and two plastic chairs. I promised her a 20k loan which I gave after a week. Now the real headache is that the girl is now getting closer and closer every day and she seems to be offering the cookie jar to me. But I feel I should not partake considering her past record
