Whether it is paying fees for her to persue a course or opening a serious business for it appears that such moves end up backfiring.Once the business picks up or she gets a good job you become a liability to her .She will most probably cheat on you file for a divorce.Then ask for child support which she will use to entertain beta males.In light of this my kunguru labda free online useless course.Business ni ile ya kuleta pesa kidogo sana where she will still depend on me.
I was almost thinking of taking her for a university course my good friend akaniambia spending 400k plus on a kungurus education is one of the most useless things that I can do.Its better to invest that money elswhere.From the kind of stories Ive read here and elswhere men are crying and even killing kungurus they educated.Ni hayo tu
Disclaimer this is just my view and not cast in stone .There are some women who have been empowered and it has worked .If you want empower yours go ahead its your own money your own decision.I cannot predict the future it might work or fail.I also do not have reliable statistics on the percentage of empowered women who later became a problem.
Empower your woman all you can but know it at the back of your mind hiyo biashara si yako. Kunguru ni kunguru tu hata kama hana kakitu.
Briffault’s Law
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hakuna hekaya I wanted to nikakatzwa na marafiki ,nikapigiwa story nikatii the story of the nigerian man in us who killed his wife having educated her ,she repaid him by cheating and filing for divorce.There was another chilling 911 call of a nigerian man shooting his wife nikatishika
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/horror-nigerian-men-go-rampage-us-kill-wives-divorce-alimony/
Empower her after filling her fallopian tube at least 3 times and DNA confirmed.
for the nigerian men in US even this did not work
There are many women walilipiwa fees and they never left…unfortunately those ones do not make a lot of noise and their husbands hardly declare it. If they did they would be classified as being boastful. This is one of the common one sided arguements which often lack a balanced voice.
On the flipside jilted husbands make a lot of noise especially after paying school fees. Hayo machungu huwa makali sana lazima machozi idondoke and in some extreme cases - suicide. But I can assure you most ladies who had their husbands pay their fees really never left.
As the Nyamgondho will always tell you. Never pay fees in hope that someone will stick with you. Never impregnate a woman to make her your wife. And never use your resources to rope in a woman. Look for someone who genuinely wants to stay with you na mwenye unapenda. You’ll be surprised at one point you may gift her something more expensive than 400K school fees.
me gift a kunguru more than 400k labda pesa za uganda
Mwanamuke ni kutii bwana. Mwanaume akivaa skinny jeans,tight fitting tshirts na baliciagaga offcourse bibi atakudharau
If she becomes your wife and she cares for the children why not? Unless you’re always going to be a poor man. 400k ni pesa kidogo sana for any person worth over 10M. Don’t be a mean person usiwache pesa yako iishe na malaya na pombe. Spend it on your family and those you love.
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Hapa ktalk i take all advice except sex and relationships. I’ve empowered my wife since 2010 na sioni shida.
Some arguments here just make me sick. She is your wife. If she needs to advance in her education, let her be. Kama ni kunguru ni kunguru. Itapigwa maji hata ikiwa kwa nyumba, behind your back.
Correct. Hawa ni wale huacha mabibi ushago, wao wakiwa Nairobi
This will always fall on deaf ears. People really want to hear how you empowered a woman and ended up with an egg on your face. Men have always empowered women and it works most of the time.
Lakini wengine wanataka kulipa school fees ili akuwe bibi. Ni kama wanabook mtu akiwa shule by taking advantage of her lack of resources. In some cases, this will backfire. But even then some women are gracious enough to stay with men who invested in them hata kama hawawapendi.
read my disclaimer
Mwanamke umeoa anafaa kuwa busy. Either akue full-time housewife akikulelea watoto bila maid, or akuwe busy kwa shamba, or kwa biashara yenu or kwa career yake. Shida mingi ukuja mwanamke akiwa idle.
Aim ya kuweka biashara haikuagi wife apate pesa, main reason huwa wife awe busy.
Msomeshe kama wewe ni babake ama guardian.
Fattening in progress. For future slaughter