Fathers day is to fathers and fathers only so all this singomathas trying to bash the men either present or absent in their children’s life by taking credit of being the father stop it! Mothers day is enough also kuna womens day kama hiyo aitoshi. You can`t be both the mother and the father. If the father is absent you are what we call a single parent
You can`t teach a boy to be a man, only his father and the male figures in his life can and if you try you will bitchify that boy like dudes who have been brought up as the only male in a home full of females. Their is no formula to being a man, a father just has to step up for his kids. Presence of a father also reduces early teenage pregnancies,this is true because u find girls that have been brought up by singomathas usually get pregnant early in life even before they reach 18 .When they grow up and get married wanakua shida tupu kwa bwana zao because they dont understand that the man is the head of the family and hence conflicts za kila siku that leads to divorce.
So mothers, you just be mothers and be great at it. and let fathers be fathers .
Happy fathers day to all the fathers in the house.