What do I tell women about men not having any attachment to their kids. Two different men who didn't want to pay child support for their own children, gave them over to whoever wanted to take their kids out of their hands. That's why the kids were adopted so quickly. I don't know how some people sleep at night. Btw FBI believe that the children are dead. They didn't put out an amber alert and having been digging up the backyard in the West home plus looking in the Cal City dump.