No man wants to be taken care of by women. Even the laziest man will resent the woman who plays the role of provider and that’s why men who are provided for are womanizers and they kill the same women providing for them.
If the man in your life is living in your house. If you paid for him dowry. You paid for the wedding. You pay fee for his kids. They bear HIS surname not yours so they belong to him. Let me tell you what I have observed for many years. The men look for a woman who can look up to them. Who they can provide for. Using your money. No man wants to fuck his mother. You are his mother not his woman. These masculine women start off with gusto in a few decades they have high blood pressure and ulcers because deep down all women want a man who can take care of them. They end up bitter. Some end up dead, killed by the man they were taking care of.
I won’t tell you that I have taken care of a man because I am too spoilt for that but I know women who do it and it always backfires. A man can only pretend to be happy with a woman who is playing his role for so long and then he will do what any red blooded man will do get out from under your masculine woman ways and look for a feminine woman who expects him to be a man and provide for her.
If you can’t find a man who can be a real man and take care of you please stay single.