finaly i had to let her go.

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Col Kakende

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For all of you who can recall a klister named @mboro ngumu.. yeah.. thats me .. back in ***.

Had posted a listing going something like this...

my fiancee had asked me for permission to attend a party of which i gracefuly declined.. and since i was to work second shift on that day thats frm 3pm to 11pm she decided to go without my consent thinking that i would never come to know as she would have came back by 9pm.. but kufika job nikapata ma
Colleagues wa first shift wamechapa job poa sana and so tulikua na only a few containers to load ship i sail. And since hakukuwa na waiters anchorage, by 7pm nlikua nimefika home only to find an empty house.. nikajua tu ameenda hio bash.. nikatuliza nikimngojea arudi. Kufika 10pm i tried to call her cellfone but went unanswered. Tried calling again at 11pm but this time the phone was off. Nikashikwa na usingizi and dozed off kwa kiti. Kuja kushtuka ni morning na dame bado hajakam. Then around 9am nikaskia knock kwa gate. Kwenda kufungua napata majamaa 4 wamembeba "fiancee" alikua ame blackout. apparently walimpata mahali kwa parking lot ya joint flani ame dumpiwa hapo and luckily mmoja wa hao maboys akam recognise.. "fiancee na cuzo wa huyo boy are friends" nikambeba nikamuingiza kwa hao only to find out that she had no panty... and by the look of it nikajua ametombwa... alikuja ku regain fahamu at mid day na hakua anakumbuka anything that happened. I was so mad and upset ile mbaya mpaka sikua nafikiria kumpeleka hosii for check up. Tukaenda hosii at 2pm akapimwa STDs , masindano na Pep. Wanted to end the relationship there and then but a pastor whom i had phoned told me not to and instead be by her side as she was realy traumatised and needed all my support atoboe hio trauma. She went for HIV testing at the third month sixth na ninth and the results came negative. Pia nilimu enrol for therapy lessons and its almost a year and 3 months now na therapist
amenishow she's fully healed.

Now leo after church nikam treat lunch kufika home nikam kalisha down. Nikamshow as painfuly as it is want to end the relationship. Theres no future between us. Siweziku ishi hivi. ( nikikaa naanza imagine vitu alifanywa) and that makes me sick... and all these time i havent touched her. Though she seems apologetic, born again, and infact ame change even for the better than i had first met her. I just had to let her go. Amelia na akalia yake yote. Her sisters called her mom but i wont be swayed to change my made up mind..

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madova

Village Elder
#11
I don't think it was a good idea to let her go.how many gals have you crossed with yet they are engaged or married.cut the crap n let her.she fucking made a mistake n got drugged by team mafisi.get over it.
 
#13
It's unfortunate that we do not have the ability to erase painful episodes in our lives. You may have lost an angel due to that in ability and there is no guarantee that the next gal you get will not have just recovered for some traumatic episode or other..
 

Ice_Cube

Village Chief
#17
It's unfortunate that we do not have the ability to erase painful episodes in our lives. You may have lost an angel due to that in ability and there is no guarantee that the next gal you get will not have just recovered for some traumatic episode or other..

What if he was unable to see her like he used to before? sticking with her may just expose her to abuse whether emotional or physical since in his mind, she transgressed big time. The best decision for both parties in such a case is just to part ways. atleast the next girl he wont have to know whether she has done the same or even worse and he will be at peace in his mind
 
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Luther12

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#18
For all of you who can recall a klister named @mboro ngumu.. yeah.. thats me .. back in ***.

Had posted a listing going something like this...

my fiancee had asked me for permission to attend a party of which i gracefuly declined.. and since i was to work second shift on that day thats frm 3pm to 11pm she decided to go without my consent thinking that i would never come to know as she would have came back by 9pm.. but kufika job nikapata ma
Colleagues wa first shift wamechapa job poa sana and so tulikua na only a few containers to load ship i sail. And since hakukuwa na waiters anchorage, by 7pm nlikua nimefika home only to find an empty house.. nikajua tu ameenda hio bash.. nikatuliza nikimngojea arudi. Kufika 10pm i tried to call her cellfone but went unanswered. Tried calling again at 11pm but this time the phone was off. Nikashikwa na usingizi and dozed off kwa kiti. Kuja kushtuka ni morning na dame bado hajakam. Then around 9am nikaskia knock kwa gate. Kwenda kufungua napata majamaa 4 wamembeba "fiancee" alikua ame blackout. apparently walimpata mahali kwa parking lot ya joint flani ame dumpiwa hapo and luckily mmoja wa hao maboys akam recognise.. "fiancee na cuzo wa huyo boy are friends" nikambeba nikamuingiza kwa hao only to find out that she had no panty... and by the look of it nikajua ametombwa... alikuja ku regain fahamu at mid day na hakua anakumbuka anything that happened. I was so mad and upset ile mbaya mpaka sikua nafikiria kumpeleka hosii for check up. Tukaenda hosii at 2pm akapimwa STDs , masindano na Pep. Wanted to end the relationship there and then but a pastor whom i had phoned told me not to and instead be by her side as she was realy traumatised and needed all my support atoboe hio trauma. She went for HIV testing at the third month sixth na ninth and the results came negative. Pia nilimu enrol for therapy lessons and its almost a year and 3 months now na therapist
amenishow she's fully healed.

Now leo after church nikam treat lunch kufika home nikam kalisha down. Nikamshow as painfuly as it is want to end the relationship. Theres no future between us. Siweziku ishi hivi. ( nikikaa naanza imagine vitu alifanywa) and that makes me sick... and all these time i havent touched her. Though she seems apologetic, born again, and infact ame change even for the better than i had first met her. I just had to let her go. Amelia na akalia yake yote. Her sisters called her mom but i wont be swayed to change my made up mind..

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In my opinion, you made the right choice. Time now for you to heal, too.
 
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