No lady puts a guy in the friendzone it's mostly who put themselves in such a situation. If you are interested in a girl sexually make it clear in every step of the way.. Your jokes, greeting, approach should always create a sexual tension sio ati unajifanya soo nice had you look like a g** priest. Yaani she thinks you are completely out of bound sexually.
Hapo umenenakubwa.
Kapsaaaa!
Av lost way too many opportunities to bang due to various reasons!?;
-lack of a lifesaver
-being too polite('gentleman')
-awarding favours before I receive(financial or otherwise)
Now am wiser.
Gals want it straight n fast.sio hekaya miingi. Move in on the prey, be bold n yet jokingly (Incase she rebuffs you won't be left with an egg on ur face).
Once I went to a seminar (3 day) outside town. We clearly wer attracted to each other with this MILF organizer. On the last day at dinner, we wer just the 2 of us enjoying the evening. I asks abt her boyfriend n she said he lives n works in Dubai n is rarely home. My ignorance dint allow me to decipher that that's one lonely starved or available mamaa...I acted 'gentleman'. I just regaled her with stupid stories of how my cute little daughter (was a young parent then, you under stand the excitement).
Wueh!
The following day, we wer departing. A male colleague of her comes n says to me "Jana uliDisappoint afisa mkubwa sana bana". I was confused n he was laughing.sikuelewa.(ujinger ingine)
Then the vehicles were departing so me n her just said brief goodbyes.
Afterwards, 3 days later, she called to say Goodbye.she was on her way to the airport.to leave.for Dubai.
That's wen it hit my stupid head that kuna farewell nilihata.it was confirmed to me by her colleague. She liked me, as she had confessed to him.
All I had to ask during that dinner was, "your room or mine?"
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