Am now fully convinced that you are a woman, cinderella in my opinion is one of the worst things to happen to women and the human race period it created a utopia image of marriage and relationships far from the reality on the ground. Such story books need not to be printed anymore they have done too much damage. @TrumanCapote
I agree with you however that one of the brainwashing tactics used to make women believe that marriage is the be all and end all of life and also to believe that men are prince charmings or knights in shining armor from the time theyre kids has made many women make poor decisions that was not in their best interest. They for a long time dont see the reality of who men are. Its only after alot of disappointment and disillusionment that reality dawns on them that there is no prince charming or knight in shining armor. That theyre not an extension of men or an appendage. Theyre not a damsel in distress. Theyre the masters of their own destinies and the captain of their lives - not anybody else - men included.