When it comes to women, we all know the four dimensions through which they are attracted to men: looks, money, status and mistari.
However, most men are only keen on the money side of attraction and greatly overate it’s importance. From my experience, if I was to do a ranking of the attraction factors, I would put it as:
Looks
Mistari
Status
Money
I rate looks and mdomo highest because those two things are what generate genuine sexual desire in women. Status and money tend to trigger a woman’s instinct to use you for fame/money.
Watu wa kutumia looks na mdomo madame = alpha males
Watu wa kutumia status na dough kupata madame = beta males
Women require only four Things… Money, more Money, readily available Money and free flowing money. Wewe na mistali zako na good looks mtabaki kunyonga bishop
Hapa my opinion ni the end justifies the means. Period. Women are different. Kuna mwenye atakupendea looks, mwingine kama wewe ni mr.moneybags ako box, mwingine kama wewe ni mtu high-energy and charismatic, na mwingine kama uko related to some Nigerian prince etc. No two women are exactly alike.
Litmus test: Dem mpoa ni yule anapanua mpaka anakanyanga ukuta na ikizidi anakanyanga kuta zote mbili na anamwaga takataka kwa bedsheet mpaka mnazitupa chini. Afu kesho yake ukimgusa bado amesweat huko kama nonesense unateleza kaa whatever.
Uwe na looks za shetuani au malaika, ama uongee kama kinanda ama status au mpesa, fukara nini whatever, kama dem hakufeel na maalpha zako mtashinda hapo tu friction moshi tupu.
Kuna some Kikuyu momo nishawahi wekelea miti in our moments of drunkenness tukiwa team building at my former workplace. Lady was pretty senior though I was not in her reporting line. She was well kept by her husband in addition to having her own money. Repeat sessions were held where threshold ilifikishwa. The lady used to tell me point blank hakuna kitu ananipendea except stories of giant and dick. Eti i make her feel like a woman. I came to believe her when she started making frequent trips to my bedshitter in donholm. Lakini kusema ukweli, I had nothing else to offer her. I was not the best looking employee. Neither did I have money to offer her.
From my experience, looks are extremely important if you have average game and want to hit and run. For any random woman on the street, the guy with the best looks is likely to hit it first. Looks huokolea sana kama wewe ni msee wa hit and run because you don’t give her the chance to know you deeply.
Money comes in second. If you have money, you will hit it second, after the good looking guy, but you will hit it more often as long as you have money.
Mistari and charisma is the slowest way to get laid, but it is likely to yield the strongest relationship because the woman will love you for who you are. It will take time but your charisma can last longer than the second guy’s money.
So, each quality matches a specific modus operandi. Kama wewe ni hit and run type of guy you will be best served by very good looks. Kama wewe ni sponsor money will serve you best. Kama wewe ni bibi ama relationshit unatafuta mistari and charisma will work best for you.
This is why you find women wako na wanaume kadhaa. Kuna wa Pesa , wakushow off Kwa mabeste wake ju ya good looks , wa the-D**** ugly and broke kama (@magreb) hawezi taka watu wamuene Na yeye
@M2Random najua wewe uko kwa looks since you said you are @brownskin na pia kwa pesa since you said you are 24 and you drive. Ndio maana Malaya random kwa klabu alikuona Mara ya kwanza akakwambia atakuzalia ukatoroka mbio