Goals in Marriage

Villagers ikifika hapa mtu hufanya aje u apply for mtu kazi kila saa anaitwa over 3 interviews amekataa kuenda just because one backfired among those some are with NGOs and blue chips company instead ironically anakuambia anataka kufanya online work am not being tribal but now I get why people go for shiny eyes

Bibi Ni Bibi . Awe shiny eye ama Kutoka coast Bora Jina yake si [SIZE=4]CAROL[/SIZE]

What are you trying to communicate?? Can you write it in your mother tongue, someone in this village might understand and paraphase it here for other talkers to read.

Kuna watu sumbua hii dunia

Hana shida. Shida ikija atatoka.

Sasa kazi ya 20k surely alafu anashinda akipigia kelele ooh sijui she is not having a career growth

Wachana na yeye kama amekataa kazi. Apana sumbua mtu hataki kusaidiwa

You provide everything. Mpaka pesa ya always.

She sees no need to work the normal jobs the rest of us have.
But,again,do not dismiss those online jobs just because they do not fit the societal moulds.
Lastly,how is ya communication? What are her fears,aspirations,dreams,goals etc?

20k kwa bibi si mbaya. Mambo ya providing ni yako si yake. Bora anakutunza wewe na watoto vizuri sioni shida. Mwambie abadilishe priorities zake to homemaking ndio asikulwe a stress za career growth.

Hata nikalipwa 100k si kitu mtu anataka lifestyle mzuri na hataki sacrifices and hii maisha ni kusaidiana we pool resources or else tutaishi rental houses forever and living from hand to mouth

Online jobs si ati ni assurity u will have a stable income I do them as a side hustle and things are not smooth always

@Guru ukisoma hii nakungoja inbox i need to talk to you since you are a mature lady

Pull resources with your friends and/or extended family to start businesses so that your wife can be a dedicated homemaker, u won’t need her income at all. That’s how somalis and Indians do it. They’re very rich yet all their wives do is take care of the kids and family business. That’s the life man. Where’s ur wife from?

Umemuoa?
If not then you are just paying for the goodies unakula kila siku.
If you are planing to marry her then mkalishe down before muende mbaaali.
If you are married then uko na kibarua. Muitie wajomba na mashangazi wamueleze point umeshindwa!!

Ama shiro

Ukambani

Sumu ya mapenzi ukikunywa hata maziwa haisadii my fren

If from the beginning you encourage such laziness, my friend don’t expect her to change at all in future.
Mbona wanaume huanguka hivi jameni? Why don’t you roar usikike mapema?
[SIZE=2]Ngaos like machismo men! [/SIZE]

Mimi advice naweza kupa, usijaribu kufungua joint account na kike/bibi.

Pimia yeye pesa ya mahitaji…like zero cash u buy everything in the house and make sure hujaacha ata 10bob.it also helps pia wewe usiwe na any cash