All of my adult life, i only wept freely during my grandma's burial(RIP) especially because we had very close relationship and she had prophetically told me a few weeks earlier that once she passes on, i should not dare weep as she had already had a long life and she could hear her ancestors calling her to rest alongside them.
And why is it that kids in most cases have closer relationship with their grandparents than they have with their parents?
Let me reserve my say. But this i will say.....sometimes , in moments of extreme emotion, when that kiwaruu is way up your throat, watching that casket go down, you just cant hold those hot tears. You cant.