When it comes to matters of the heart am as clueless as it comes, I am an outgoing dude but for some strange reason i cant confront a woman and spit my vibe, i develop cold feat as a result many potential candidates lady friends desert after realizing that i may not make that killer move. Virtually all the women i have been with have been through efforts of my friends’ girlfriends. Since they are mutual hookups i tend to end up with singo mums. Now the thing with them is that they are good at loving, treat you like their kid and pamper you something every man wants and your average nairobi woman wont. Problem with them is that they tend to be over protective and are emotionally fragile, a small fight leaves them crying and dramatic. A simple survey of women here in kenya will reveal we have so many singo mums around and them being a huge chunk of society have needs and there is where i come in, but unlike @Jirani i fly under the radar do my thing and am outta there. So kuna this 36yr old singo mum of two that has been you know “oiling my gear” for last couple of months, so juzi she decides to drink and comfront me demanding to know “where this relationship is headed” :eek: i politely remind her that there was no relationship in the first place! Hehe usitake ona ile drama ilikua kwa plot:D Lets just say that atanishtaki kwa papa akikuja na anaomba maombi inaitwa novena(catholics wanisaidie hapa)
Dont start what you cant finish my brother.
You should have let her know from the start that you don’t want a deep relationship.
And BTW, does she “oil your groins” in her house, in kids presence?
Hehehe…ii kijiji inakuanga na vituko.plus answer this uko na miaka ngapi?
Nop wouldnt do that always my place not her place
Few months shy of 29
We had that discussion but when feelings get in the way reason flys out through the window
why can’t women separate the physical side of sex from the emotional and simply fuck
there is nothing like okoa jahazi I thought by now you know that it’s going to blow in your face sooner or later.I have tried it a couple of time but the result is the same.
The Single Mom phenomenon, created by men, powered by men and blamed on women.
Big up to you @imei2012 , honesty is the best policy, sometimes.
You would have clarified your intentions from the word go…
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Nowadays most women are loose, back in the day they determined your potential future, today the thighs are open to anybody
At 29 you are at you’re at your prime, you are an eligible bachelor and you can attract the best that there is, at the point in life you should have refined your taste in women (I am not judging) so stop scraping the bottom of the barrel bro.
Have you ever asked yourself where these single mums come from?
The simple reason is that men are not responsible( I’m opening the pandora’s box) any more, ditto!
na pia as you have been told stop scraping the bottom of the barrel, you are at your prime any 30+ year old woman is spent and beyond sell by date wachana nao watafute sponsors and 70 year old men
In English or Kiswahili please? Ama mwenye ameelewa anifafanulie tafadhali…
Good answer imei2012. How do women get you in a situationship like that then ask where it is heading?
A lesson to men: if you know that you can never take it further with a woman, don’t hit it more than twice or just go Kidinyi’s way.
A lesson to women: If a man tells you upfront that he doesn’t want a serious relationship, run ASAP.