Wadau, reflecting on your life, how did your upbringing affect who you are now, the choices you make and how you do what you do? The pleasures you pursue and amount of effort put in them? How you relate with people and so on?
Example mimi: mzae alitupeleka sightseeing sana-rivers, forests and waterfalls.
Madhe zake zilikuwa impromptu visits to friends and relatives. A family friend would take us and his sons for train rides.
I never saw my folks fight. Obedience and respect was the order of the day........
Consequently, I'm peace loving and calm, conflict-avoiding, courteous and kind (I try to be). I feel uncomfortable if I'm not helping with chores, anywhere. I love road and train trips, and spontaneous expeditions. But also, growing up in different places means relationships ni noma.
Environments and conditions (socio-cultural, physical and economic) in which we are born and raised affects how we turn out in life.
TL : DR
A kid raised in the poorest of conditions, but with a loving and protective family easily turns out highly functional, and able to exploit available opportunities to "make it" and help their ilk grow. Kule family time and bonding was valued, these guys wanapendana sana, despite disagreements.
Mtu amelelewa na pesa na high social class, access to anything they want and desire, but with poor connectedness in the family, poor value system and relationships, lack of emotional, social and mental care and compassion, turns out to be the opposite-simply dysfunctional.
Bado kuna wale despite the environment and upbringing, their personal characteristics na genetics determine where they fall-either functional or dysfunctional. This is not about success
Example mimi: mzae alitupeleka sightseeing sana-rivers, forests and waterfalls.
Madhe zake zilikuwa impromptu visits to friends and relatives. A family friend would take us and his sons for train rides.
I never saw my folks fight. Obedience and respect was the order of the day........
Consequently, I'm peace loving and calm, conflict-avoiding, courteous and kind (I try to be). I feel uncomfortable if I'm not helping with chores, anywhere. I love road and train trips, and spontaneous expeditions. But also, growing up in different places means relationships ni noma.
Environments and conditions (socio-cultural, physical and economic) in which we are born and raised affects how we turn out in life.
TL : DR
A kid raised in the poorest of conditions, but with a loving and protective family easily turns out highly functional, and able to exploit available opportunities to "make it" and help their ilk grow. Kule family time and bonding was valued, these guys wanapendana sana, despite disagreements.
Mtu amelelewa na pesa na high social class, access to anything they want and desire, but with poor connectedness in the family, poor value system and relationships, lack of emotional, social and mental care and compassion, turns out to be the opposite-simply dysfunctional.
Bado kuna wale despite the environment and upbringing, their personal characteristics na genetics determine where they fall-either functional or dysfunctional. This is not about success
