How does new mom sleeping with another man who is not the baby's father affect her baby

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
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I've never understood this popular ideology that if you are sleeping with a different man who isn't their biological dad it affects the kid what of those cheating their husband that mtoto ni wake na ni wa gym instructor? Those kids are alive and well.

Disclaimer :I'm not endorsing promiscuity in new moms or anyone else. I'm just asking if it's true and the rationale behind some of these beliefs.

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HI Mums ,nko na mtoto 6 and half months nkihave sex na mwenye si babake itaharibu mtoto ?? Nliachana na babake ,msinitusi pls advice me
 

mikel

Village Sponsor
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I've never understood this popular ideology that if you are sleeping with a different man who isn't their biological dad it affects the kid what of those cheating their husband that mtoto ni wake na ni wa gym instructor? Those kids are alive and well.

Disclaimer :I'm not endorsing promiscuity in new moms or anyone else. I'm just asking if it's true and the rationale behind some of these beliefs.

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HI Mums ,nko na mtoto 6 and half months nkihave sex na mwenye si babake itaharibu mtoto ?? Nliachana na babake ,msinitusi pls advice me
Simple logic, kid is still breastfeeding and you go out there you get some disease and pass it to the baby.
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#3
Simple logic, kid is still breastfeeding and you go out there you get some disease and pass it to the baby.
OK. So that is why even men are not to have sex with nursing moms if they are going out. Why don't they just say it directly they make it sound like something spiritual.
 

mikel

Village Sponsor
#4
OK. So that is why even men are not to have sex with nursing moms if they are going out. Why don't they just say it directly they make it sound like something spiritual.
Our forefathers assumed it was cultural...but with modernity we now know better.
And men are also very careful at this stage...they also dont want to infect their babies
 
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My million dollar question is how do nursing mothers manage to have sex with the sore tits full of milk? yaani tuseme haujapona kapsaa from the wear and tear. The sleepless nights do a number on you too.
Lastly how does she even engage with another new man so early on?
 

mikel

Village Sponsor
#6
My million dollar question is how do nursing mothers manage to have sex with the sore tits full of milk? yaani tuseme haujapona kapsaa from the wear and tear. The sleepless nights do a number on you too.
Lastly how does she even engage with another new man so early on?
Reminds me sometime back when RAO's PA cried on social media that some senior parliamentarian had climbed his wife, a new mother. Dude couldn't believe how some old man was already hitting it yet according to him she was still healing. Kuna wanaume hata mwezi haishi
 

Bun Bundeck

Senior Villager
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My million dollar question is how do nursing mothers manage to have sex with the sore tits full of milk? yaani tuseme haujapona kapsaa from the wear and tear. The sleepless nights do a number on you too.
Lastly how does she even engage with another new man so early on?
People are different.

Even prostitutes have sex when they are pregnant and immediately after they give birth.

In fact they have sex with like 30 men a day hadi p*ssy inawaka moto inatoa moshi
 

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