How to Talk to a Friend Who is a Serial Wife Batterer

How does one broach the subject to a childhood friend, especially when the battering combines even harmless kids and the house help to a point the kids sustain injuries? Last time I accidentally happened upon an incident that was at the final stages with the wife sustaining a black eye and other injuries which needed some scanning. I had gone to pick the guy so we could head to some meeting on a Saturday morning. A couple weeks ago, one kid got some injuries. Now this really got me thinking. I rarely get in between when couples fight because I know who comes out with egg on their face, so… for the kids.
How to tell the friend to tone down or stop? Wazee, nipeni ushauri. Sandi sana in advance.

Wachana na yeye…if the wife is smart, she will leave him alone akuwe single mother. But she better be a single mother than live with an animal. By now you should have realized that people dont change…ni ngumu kumbadilisha…ni kama kuambia junkie @Mzee mzima awache sigara na bangi. Cant work

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Stop battering your wife first.

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violence is never the answer to any problem

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You can never get between couples shit. Utageuziwa ushangae.

Utakuja hapa na black eye!

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hapo nitafuata tu thread, and how does he react when you start a topic that touches on wife battering? maybe after seeing it as a passing news item?

Huyo bibi atoke huko faster faster. And tell your friend rife rife yeye ni hoodrat. Akileta ufala oooh unangilia nyumba yangu mpatie rko na tombstone askie the pain pia.

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distance yourself from him… when he asks why come clean and confront the fucker. else wait he kill his family and you will have to live with guilt of doing nothing. who is this fucker who abuses his children to the extent of injuring them?

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What tribe is the wife?

Alafu ambia boy not to gonga ile ya kuumiza alafu he should avoid hitting her kwa sura. Just afew soft touches inatosha

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Keep your az off their fight…they will sort their thing out by themselves or else, you’ll need this village again…this time ukiwa kwa mix.

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Avoid him, he is a psychopath. If he does that to his own family, just imagine what he is capable of.

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kwani huwa hafeel guilty watoi wakimskia kwa mlango wananyamaza kama maji kwa mtungi after hearing them laughing and running around ama wanatorokea kwa bedroom?

nuh, tulikubaliana kama hajakuslap, wachana naye. Nashuku huyu ako tu na shida yake fulani

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wacha ujinga that lady might as well be your mother, sister or daughter . you dare put hands of on my sister nitakupiga na nyundo ukae ni kama umegongwa na lorry.

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unajua Blaze amefanywa nini na wife wake juzi akiwa mlevi?

If he kills a person, the government has a way of making him regret the act for a lifetime…he will get oiled and battered in jail.

Wachaneni na mambo ya nyumba ya wenyewe

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Unless its the Purge

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what has tribe go to do with wife battering? indulge me nione pahali ujinga yako imefika!!!

Regardless if it was your mother or sister you would be talking a different language . Try that shit uko ujeru uone ukirudishwa dandora.some of this things there is nothing like controlled wife battering, eventually it escalates.in this case Nigga is even injuring his children… ingekua Mimi ii jamaa ningekua nimeiseti kwa child services coz soon enough he will do irreversible damage.

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Hapa kuongelesha yeye ni bure nenda kwenye kituo cha polisi iliyokaribu nawe piga ripoti.

Lives are in danger.

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