I Lost My Girlfriend.
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pole sana @ombudsman may her soul RIP.
I hate meningitis,I remember as if it was yesterday, I had a highschool friend Eunice who we were too close she was like a sister to me.
She was short and plump hence we had nicknamed her Eunice kanduyu
She was lively a good heart,a class behind me,men after clearing fourth form sometimes around march I heard she was hospitalized at KNH.
The day I planned to visit her I received the devastating news of her demise. That day I cried like a child. Eight years have passed but I have tried to forget but I have never forgotten.
She was short and plump hence we had nicknamed her Eunice kanduyu
She was lively a good heart,a class behind me,men after clearing fourth form sometimes around march I heard she was hospitalized at KNH.
The day I planned to visit her I received the devastating news of her demise. That day I cried like a child. Eight years have passed but I have tried to forget but I have never forgotten.
Almost all public hospitals are very casual how they treat patients, if you are a talker then you must be able to google your symptoms to identify what is most likely ailing you or your loved ones before you go to such hospitals, sio ati they diagnose it for you alternatively they must carry out a lab test before they commence treatment
Pole sana @ombudsman lost a bro to that fucking disease; na ilikua the same story sweating profusely, confusion, incoherent speech tukampeleka hosi it took 4 days for them to diagnose it fungal meningitis. He passed on a few days later
Headache and photophobia, plus no signs of improvement are classic symptoms of meningitis. Your girlfriend died of medical malpractice, sadly. Nikisema hakuna hospitali ingine Kenya ambayo natambua isipokuwa Aga Khan Nbi, I mean it. The nonsense that goes on in these substandard hospitals, I don't know...I think they should be sued, both doctors and hospitals.. that is the only way things will improve.
pole sana bro i feel you mimi sasa i think i just got lucky coz after tu my side dish gave birth to my boy kumfikisha home akadunda na ku convelse si mimi huyo na yeye teke hadi hosi hata mtoi tumesahau kwa njia maze nasema tu vitu zake kufika wakasema ni malaria but since ilukwa late they ikakuwa a dozz nimchukue the next day by that time anasema kichwa inauma mbaya so i went back for the baby nikamletea hosi juu pia ma nurse walikuwa wapoa
the next day mtu wangu ako worse na niko works ule dr akanical akinishow hii kichwa itabidi nairobi west MRI hapo wakaona that swellin ya menengitis by that ashachizi alafu guys all this time we hav a 2 day old baby ule sasa awezi pewa manyonyi juu matha ako mbaya ikakuwa nilipie nun milk powder
hapo na hapo mresh akawekwa on anti biotics noma sana on drip zinaitwa manitol dr luther can relate hio satchet hosi ilikuwa inacharge 1k guys hio satchet ilikuwa inaisha na 2hrs anadungwa ingine hapo hapo
all this time hata hawezi shika mtoi so ni aunty yake ako hapo na mimi na mtoi pia ile nun ya mtoi ni maganji anafyatua na 4days
in short she recovered 100% after kitu 3 wks mpaka dr anadai its a miracle juu either angekua blind ama cripple but she managed
the crazy part was nilikuwa natoka job naenda namuosha juu she was so weak nikaa paralysis alafu nakimbia home juu pia huko watu wananingojea
the next day mtu wangu ako worse na niko works ule dr akanical akinishow hii kichwa itabidi nairobi west MRI hapo wakaona that swellin ya menengitis by that ashachizi alafu guys all this time we hav a 2 day old baby ule sasa awezi pewa manyonyi juu matha ako mbaya ikakuwa nilipie nun milk powder
hapo na hapo mresh akawekwa on anti biotics noma sana on drip zinaitwa manitol dr luther can relate hio satchet hosi ilikuwa inacharge 1k guys hio satchet ilikuwa inaisha na 2hrs anadungwa ingine hapo hapo
all this time hata hawezi shika mtoi so ni aunty yake ako hapo na mimi na mtoi pia ile nun ya mtoi ni maganji anafyatua na 4days
in short she recovered 100% after kitu 3 wks mpaka dr anadai its a miracle juu either angekua blind ama cripple but she managed
the crazy part was nilikuwa natoka job naenda namuosha juu she was so weak nikaa paralysis alafu nakimbia home juu pia huko watu wananingojea
Take heart @ombudsman it's important that you have family or a close friend close by. Grieving is a process that has its stages and what's key here is that it's perfectly ok to grieve as long as you want and feel the need to. People have different ways of coping but the best two as per my own experience (I lost my daughter in 2013) are PRAY and TALK about it. Once again, take heart.
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