What he did was wrong but why demonize people pulling mikokoteni? What if you met your sleazy dad and he was a teacher or doctor? Do you know some of these professions do not pay that much?
That in fact the mkokoteni dude if he has good “tenders” from mama mbogas can be raking in more than you-a salaried person. I say this because I work for an NGO and too often see how these despised jobs can sometimes be well paying. In fact we are all about promoting and funding micro enterprises.
Definitely these are not your typical glamorous jobs. I for one I do not have what it takes to do those jobs but who cares if they are not coming to you to beg.
A man is still a man.. ontop of a the latest Range or pulling a mkokoteni.. mblo respect wera za watu huku inje.. regardless of what your father did to you.
He may have looked malnourished n heavily intoxicated .......but remember you have his DNA in you. Imagine kama angetumia condom kama zile za Sure, sasa ungekuwa manure ya sukuma wiki ama ungekuwa washed away to the great oceans. That aside there is a definate blessing that comes when you honour your parents. They are the second gods...in short find peace with him and leave the rest to nature or the gods