I regret Brazilian butt lift surgery

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Some replies to this video are eye opening


Dekthagr8
1 week ago
People don't understand what growing up with a big butt is like. Everyone sexualizes you from a young age. That's why I stay in joggers and hoodies. Be strong !!

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Gabriela Duran1 week ago
Dekthagr8 agree

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StephanieDotDot1 week ago
So true girl! You are labeled fast just for being curvy.

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Pretty Nici1 week ago
Dekthagr8 Facts!!!! I was always concerned about being “too sexy”. Now I don’t care. But you’re telling the truth!

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Ilham Bouhmid1 week ago
Me too i cant even wear shirt tops bcuz my biiiig butt will get me in troubles

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Kendra W.1 week ago
So true...I couldn’t even wear shorts as a child cause I had too much body and would attract the wrong people...I always thought that was unfair skinny girls get to wear whatever

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Ra H1 week ago
Agree I have a naturally big butt its overrated when your back be hurting and you can't lay on your back

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Pretty Nici1 week ago
Kendra W. Same!!! Like no, how about those “wrong people” stop checking for me

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Soraya G1 week ago
Dekthagr8 i’ve said this so much but people say i’m just finding a struggle when there really is a struggle and a very toxic issue. people sexualise you from young and make extreme assumptions about you simply by the way you’re shaped. this needs to be a conversation i’m not saying others don’t have it bad but woman with “shape” have a lot struggles too
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airieca robins1 week ago
I totally agree wit u mines is 60" and I hate it I hate the attention I hate comments I hate whole thing

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JG DIaz1 week ago
Or when you have nice legs too . I don’t feel comfortable wearing skirts or shorts. People think I’m being too sexy. When in reality it’s hot outside!!!!

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Dekthagr81 week ago
@JG DIaz I ran track in college so I have thighs as well with a 28' waist so I completely understand.

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Dekthagr81 week ago
@Soraya G I agree, so much of your innocence is lost as a child if your too developed.

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Dymdz R4ever1 week ago
Wow! You mention a really good point about being "sexualized at an early age"

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Delicia Lawrence1 week ago
Yes they dont understand

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Tabatha Davis1 week ago
Same here!

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Danielle Moore1 week ago
Dekthagr8 yes I dealt with that people boys & girls at a very young age sexualize you, girls were jealous boys think you’re fast , I also wore joggers all the time “Tomboy look” & I hated attention from my butt

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Walaa Shaheen1 week ago
Thats true

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angeljohnson2341 week ago
Totally agree. I have a big butt (natural) and small waist. Even though I stay covered up, I get A LOT of unwanted attention. I hate it. I would never pay money to be treated the way I am.

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Shana Hines1 week ago
Dekthagr8 thats how i was with my boobs. i got A brrast reduction last year

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Dar-Rube Scott1 week ago
Omg so true! Since I was 12, from boys my age to GROWN ass men!

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Baby G1 week ago
Do you know what it is like to grow up with a flat butt, as a black woman?

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MrsA Baby1 week ago
I say this all the time. I hated being sexualized as a child & even as an adult because of my butt. I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.

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April Chambliss1 week ago
JG DIaz or when you are naturally busty and you don’t want the attention or to be sexuality for growing naturally and genetically.

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Thoughrobred Boss1 week ago
Say that!!!!Omg yesss soooo true!!!The struggle is so real having a big back side!!!A lot of people secretly or obviously stare,it’s hard to tell if men genuinely want to talk to you for you,or just because you have a big behind...a lot of woman come off jealous towards you...it’s difficult to cover it up sometimes even with baggy clothes...I’ve had men still make cat calls talkin about damn all that ass even with sweatpants & sweatshirts on,so disrespectful & humiliating!!!!It’s not all that it’s chalked up to be...frfr!!!
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Feeding Vegan Bae6 days ago
Yess


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Chanel Harper6 days ago
Yep! I myself have a modest sized butt, but I have friends that have huge butts. The way they are sexualized, even when they are moderately dressed, is disgusting. They can’t even walk down the street without being stared at.

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Ti Cheri6 days ago
I am a slim girl with an average size butt but I completely see what you mean. I've seen so many 12, 13 year olds getting hit on by grown men because they got their curves early. It's disgusting when even when they find out their age they continue.

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N N
6 days ago
I cannot agree more with you.. I had men and guys molest me, guys sexually harass me and girls treat me like their biggest threat just because of my bum. I got depressed, developed eating disorders and lost a whole lot of weight because of it. Till date, I get anxieties from gaining weight cos I know what it'll attract for me. All I wanted was for someone to like me for who I am not what I looked like. People never understand the problems all they think is you have it all for having the body. I hope younger girls learn from this.
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Ti Cheri6 days ago
@Baby G well I don't have a flat but but I do have a small booty so ya it is hard being a black women. With a small butt or flat butt or both. Because black women are expected to have gigantic butts. And when you're a black women who doesn't have this you get treated as if you have no value in the black community

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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Girl omg same with me .. like guys only want me sexually i dont got time for that type of shit.. the hate be so real towards women like me and its crazy because mine is natural and all my sisters are way bigger than me .. like its so annoying..

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Angellou Harvard6 days ago
You just don't know what is going on with a sexy body. Sometimes i wish I was overweight, the attentions that I get are disgusting, and that bothers me. I've experience this daily.

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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Angellou Harvard right like have a nice body only makes guys want sex from u .. that automatically think your a hoe because you have a nice shape .. im tired of guys just seeing ass when they see me i want someone to want me for me

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Rosemary Terra6 days ago
Another thing too is that just because you have a big butt doesn’t mean men like you. :(

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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Rosemary Terra yup that what we are saying men dont really like they just want sex.. and most men do really be likely big booty girls too i know for sure that dont like skinny or small women either ... but it should never be abut men it should be about you and what makes you happy

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HairBy Shine6 days ago
Dekthagr8 so sad but true


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Rosemary Terra6 days ago
Capricorn’s Love big booties is a trend that’s changing. The type of body mostly trending now is hip to waist ratio, in which doesn’t require a big butt or moderate to big butt. You can have a small butt and have a hourglass figure. The term skinny varies because most women classified as skinny aren’t model type thin. Be content with your body because the trends are forever changing.
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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Rosemary Terra i understand what you are saying .. i didnt realize that was trending now ... down south where im live right now big booty girls or light skin girls are the only things i see thats winning but im not one of them ... i dont care for attention i been shapely for years since after graduating high school

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Katherine Woods6 days ago
I have an smaller butt. I grew up with the boobs and the hips and thighs/legs though... so no bikinis or low cut tops. Also I stayed in bigger clothing for the longest. Once tried to wear the trends and realized the attention that I did get was negative. I felt like a piece of meat. I always dress modestly but from then on I want these men out here to look at my face not my assests.
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Rosemary Terra6 days ago
Capricorn’s Love oh maybe hood men still like big big butts. Not the types I was talking about. I never knew most women wanted nicki Minaj type booties I always thought most liked Beyoncé or jlo type bodies.

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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Katherine Woods thats the way i feel katherine but is like all guys want is sex they dont want relationships just a nut and what they can get out of you thats about it .. i wish social media can shut down and women start having respect for their selves then guys will have to go back to respecting and treating women with love and care ... but as long as theres easy ways to get in touch with females just for sex it will forever be hard for guys to love women like they use too
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Katherine Woods6 days ago
Capricorn’s Love yes I couldn’t agree more. We fall short sometimes in regards to wanting attention. I know that I have. I have wanted a bigger and perkier butt for the longest but I am in constant prayer to accept the body I’ve been given AND slowly but surely it’s I’m growing to accept what God has given me. It’s a struggle especially when social media glorifies the perfect body and all that. I’m learning too BUT I like many have been that girl who is like okay God I have the hips, the thighs/legs, and the boobs, BUT no butt... smh. It’s a reason though. Lol
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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Katherine Woods im the opposite i have the hips and butt my titts have grown bigger i can now grip them .. and i have belly too .. i use to want a big butt when i was in high school because i was 83-89 pounds but once i got out of high school and i had my daughter the weight came out of nowhere booty and all the guys who didnt see me before was now noticing me .. even now my sisters have the nicki minaj bodied but theirs is natural .. when im around my sisters guys dont even notice me.. but let my sisters leave and around wants to be in my face i noticed the fake love from females who was lowkey hating on me those same females wanted to know how i got my body like this i told them i guess my baby help me and the weight came do know girls got pregnant just to gain weight or got on the depo shot to gain weight ? If i put up a new pic my inbox would be blown up from guys pretending to want to get to know me im older and wiser now i dont even care for social media i just want someone who want me for me and all of me
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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Rosemary Terra lol yes girl wanted the nicki minaj booty if you noticed in this girls video she said she wanted a booty like k michelle and k michelle got her s nicki minaj body i never had anyone say jlo or beyonce body ever now thats funny and no love even white guys and mexican etc try to link with me but i dont play none of that shh no mind.. from the young to the old try to chase behind me and my sisters but i dont care of nobody all i want is love not a link partner
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Katherine Woods6 days ago
Capricorn’s Love wow! I hate that people have that mentality from guys. I feel like confidence is what will attract the right guy. Pre-baby and a size 8 I was getting love, pre-baby size 12 I was getting weird attention. Post-baby, I’m healing and want no attention. Gotta get my mind right. I just had my baby 8 months ago btw.

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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Katherine Woods wow congratulations mamas .. and i have my daughter 6yrs ago ... thats part of why now that im older and wiser i dont care for the wrong attention .. like when a guy aprroach me and be like damn girl u thick or hit that line like damn lil mama u bad you got ass i be like and you a whole dubb and i just dont even give guys my energy..., like i was so hurt when a guy i was liking hit me up and he was like damn you phat when you gona let me come see you ?? I like damn yo not u too ... but i hit him back like when the cow jumps over the moon
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Katherine Woods6 days ago
Capricorn’s Love thank you!!!!!! Rotfl I’m gonna use that! As of lately I’ve been getting the inconsistent and “hey” or “wyd” 20x a day types... Issa no from me. I either ignore them or respond with smart comments like what you’ve said lol. I’m still at the point where I am not interested in relationships. I just want wholeness and healing in all aspects of my life. No bbl, attention, or guy can help my insecurities like God can.
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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Katherine Woods yes girl always keep God first .. and yes i use to hate when i guy use to write me like wyd like thats the only thing they can say im like .. i had to tell one guy like stop asking me what im doing and say what u mean and mean what u say because i dont got time for the games... thats a guys way of trying to keep in your circle ⭕️ i cross out and keep it pushing love because its all b.s to me but i havent had a text from a guy or any guys approach me at all in so long i was like .. ok i must be ugly now huh but then i was like naw i got to get on my grind .. get me a new place and just focus on my own happiness because when guys come into my life they dont add to it anyway so im good i dont even believe in relationships to be honest
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Katherine Woods6 days ago
Capricorn’s Love keep hope alive. If it’s in your heart, it will come to pass. Wait on God’s timing. So what, we’ve had a few duds... I’ve seen people bounce back from worse. It’s time to grind.

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Capricorn’s Love6 days ago
Katherine Woods i dont believe i will ever bounce back when it comes to “love” but yes when it comes to money and things like that i get blessed in that department i gave up on so called love


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Jayla Jones6 days ago
Dekthagr8 EXACTLY!!! I tell ppl this ALL the time! But they only see what they can from the outside looking in. Growing up peers would always joke on my big butt calling me an upside down candy apple & my mom made me look every bit of my age a/ no wiggle room, no daisy dukes nothing.

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MoonFlowerBlu El6 days ago
@Kendra W. me too I literally hast dress like a boy but the problem is not our bodies but sick perverted males.

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Rosemary Terra5 days ago
Capricorn’s Love health is wealth. I can tell you would be surprised to know that most women rather a Beyoncé body than a Monique or nick minaj body. Even k Michelle didn’t like her booty after a while. Health will always be wealth.

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your mother's favorite.5 days ago
Girl! Seriously, the grass is not greener.


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A Rashad5 days ago
Facts you’re seen sexually. You not just the pretty potential girlfriend... dudes want to have sex with you.

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A Rashad5 days ago
JG DIaz girl preach!!!! I waited till my thirties to leave that prison, I wear shorts now idgaf!!!! You not trying to be jezebel it’s F’ing hot

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strawhelyperfectx5 days ago
Literally if I talk to a guy they automatically want a booty pic like tf???? Do I have hoe written on my forehead. They only want you for your body and it’s like wth I’m more than that.

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The Sexeguru5 days ago
Dekthagr8 damn this was a real comment and the truth

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Heiress of GLAM Crown Collection5 days ago
Swear growing up they called me Bertha Butt and I HATED IT!!! I developed so many insecurities bc I was young with a body of a grown woman. Grown men hit on me, i was called “Fast” or “Hot” by my mom when I just wanted to wear shorts like everyone else. I was banned from being around my men
 
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I see hypocrisy. Bitches out-here complaining about how much "trouble" they have gotten into just because their assess are yuuuge. But none of them will admit that they have used their femininity as a carrot...to get all manner of favours and advantages from MEN.

Ngui hao.
 
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It's said big booty girls don't know if they're liked by men for their personality or big butt. So dating for them is a challenge men might not understand.
 

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