Kua mwanaume ni kazi ya punda but ukubali hiyo story tu ikiwa u want to propagate your genes. Usifanye ju unataka credit na hongera za upus. Nurture the next generation wajiweze kimaisha na teach them all you can, don't expect anything in return. Pray to God akupee nguvu umalizie hii kibarua na ujijengee ka pigsty kadogo and have investments that provide something small continously through old age to sustain bila effort, and that if you die you go out with your boots on (akili zako functional, you can do everything pretty much on your own etc, just that your heart gave in in your sleep or sth). And enjoy whatever little you have, sort watoi proper but keep sth small for yourself ata chupa moja ya tusker kila weekend