Is there anyone who is an involuntary celibate really? If you really want to have sex, you can have it before the day is out, sex is the most readily available commodity in the world. If you are not having sex it’s because you have chosen not have it not because you are forced to be celibate. Either way I don’t know what the big deal is about having sex that you even need a whole movement to protest or decry the lack of sex in your life. You are living a very good life. Being celibate. No disease. No unwanted pregnancy. The most overrated thing in life is sex. Totally not worth the trouble it can put you in. 5 minutes of sex, you risk HIV, Herpes, hpv, hepatitis A to Z. Is it really worth it? Don’t think so. But hey what do I know.
Very true. I learnt that sex is overrated yet it is every where. And besides it feels the same. It’s only tamu kama sunguch depending on how you feel about the person you do it with…na venye hii kijiji ina wankers wengi…who think sex ni big deal…
I wish sex was as easy to get as @TrumanCapote you’re saying.
Approaching women is never an easy task. You will experience rejection, blueticks, you’ll spend lots of money and when you finally think you’ve gotten it only for the woman to flake.
As a person who lost my virginity after campus at 26 years old it was very tough
26? What would you be saying if you were 40?
Let me tell you something. During advent of HIV, the so called Chad’s who were getting sex left and right, at the drop of a hat bcz of their good looks were dying like flies. It was a disease for the handsome men and the hot ladies. It was very painful to see your once handsome uncle reduced to a bag of bones. From those experiences we learnt how to avoid sex like the plague. You came to associate sex with that horrible disease. I am yet to get over the trauma of burying once healthy and lively people in quick succession. Even men lost taste because all you could think of is if they are carrying it or not. I actually dated a very handsome guy who had it but because coitus was a no go zone for me I was safe until he finally disclosed his status to me.
Later as I reflected, I imagined how much people exchange spiritually and emotional if at all there is a physical transfer of disease. The thought made me develop a deeper aversion to sex bcz I really saw the stark reality of how your life can change completely bcz of one sexual encounter. I’m still scared to date.
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I’m realistic is all.
Yes. Tall. Dark and Handsome. Smoothest skin I’ve ever seen in a man. Actually since sex was never on the table, I didn’t find out via vct. He told me. You can imagine if I was like these millenials who fall into bed b4 they know your name then rush for P2 next morning. We are still good friends though he’s abroad now, he still sends me gifts, he told me I’m the most understanding woman who never rejected him based on his status. We dated for awhile even after I knew his status. I probably felt sorry for him. Too sorry to dump him.
We are talking of the idea of being able to get the sex (being an incel) not having the luxury of refusing it because of various health reasons or other reasons