Infidelity Killings

#1
So recent killings and unbelievable violence caused by infidelity or some misunderstanding or when a marriage or relationship is falling apart. The ones that have really touched me are the ones where children are killed. There was a woman who had left the husband then she came back and it still wasnt working ,she killed herself and three small kids all below 10. Another story was of some guy who lost money and burnt his wife and kids in the house. The rest are the regular ones of killing the husband or wife or gf or bf usually because of infidelity.

As a Christian,immorality- sexual immorality is a huge wrong. However for those who arent Christians the only thing standing between them and infidelity is the fear of being caught and the fear of HIV basically. With what I have observed around me,if your husband/wife or bf/gf isnt cheating on you you are in the minority. Its practically an epidermic. Its become normalised,commercialised and made to look like something desirable even. If you work somewhere or work out somewhere and you dont sleep with anyone there you are practically an odd ball or seen as a religious zealot.

I will not go into the gory details but all I ama say is that its so bad that everytime I think I know someone who is above this mess. I am always disappointed. Whenever I think someone is above sleeping around I am ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS disappointed. So basically what Ive concluded is that you cant afford to go into any relationship and become super enmeshed and completely trust the person and be invested 100% because one day the shit you will find out will lead you down the path of disappointment.

All these guys who did this killings and suicide, homicides had unrealistic expectations and their identity became completely enmeshed and invested in the person so when they were let down they cant imagine life without these people. Its better to die or theyre so angry they go out and even kill not just the other person but your own innocent kids.Like the pain can be that bad. All I can say from what Ive been seeing around me people is that this is not that era of putting your everything in person. No, it is not. The world is just too rotten for this. You absolutely cant trust anyone with your heart except Jesus. Keep your heart. Where we have reached now ,relationships and marriages have become like jobs, theyre purely functional .Theyre purely a means to an end . Do not become sentimentally attached to them and start expecting loyalty and unconditional love. Utashangaaaaa. Just for your sanity and your peace of mind and your own survival , dont be falling in love until you lose yourself. Dont. Fall in love fine but keep your head on straight about the reality of who people are out here. They have no morals .No conscience. Theyre materialistic .Theyre narcissistic. Its a freakin' jungle people. PROTECT YOURSELF. So that we dont see you on news going to jail because shit just overwhelmed you and you lost it. PROTECT YOURSELF. Guard your heart like its your life. Do relationships from your head because theres nobody who is worth all this mess I see everyday.No marriage or relationship is worth this insane shit of going to the extent of killing yourself, killing someone and going to jail for whats left of your life and then killing innocent children who didnt send you any applications to be born. PROTECT YOURSELF. So called Love Issa jungle. And you can take that to the bank.
 
#9
So recent killings and unbelievable violence caused by infidelity or some misunderstanding or when a marriage or relationship is falling apart. The ones that have really touched me are the ones where children are killed. There was a woman who had left the husband then she came back and it still wasnt working ,she killed herself and three small kids all below 10. Another story was of some guy who lost money and burnt his wife and kids in the house. The rest are the regular ones of killing the husband or wife or gf or bf usually because of infidelity.

As a Christian,immorality- sexual immorality is a huge wrong. However for those who arent Christians the only thing standing between them and infidelity is the fear of being caught and the fear of HIV basically. With what I have observed around me,if your husband/wife or bf/gf isnt cheating on you you are in the minority. Its practically an epidermic. Its become normalised,commercialised and made to look like something desirable even. If you work somewhere or work out somewhere and you dont sleep with anyone there you are practically an odd ball or seen as a religious zealot.

I will not go into the gory details but all I ama say is that its so bad that everytime I think I know someone who is above this mess. I am always disappointed. Whenever I think someone is above sleeping around I am ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS disappointed. So basically what Ive concluded is that you cant afford to go into any relationship and become super enmeshed and completely trust the person and be invested 100% because one day the shit you will find out will lead you down the path of disappointment.

All these guys who did this killings and suicide, homicides had unrealistic expectations and their identity became completely enmeshed and invested in the person so when they were let down they cant imagine life without these people. Its better to die or theyre so angry they go out and even kill not just the other person but your own innocent kids.Like the pain can be that bad. All I can say from what Ive been seeing around me people is that this is not that era of putting your everything in person. No, it is not. The world is just too rotten for this. You absolutely cant trust anyone with your heart except Jesus. Keep your heart. Where we have reached now ,relationships and marriages have become like jobs, theyre purely functional .Theyre purely a means to an end . Do not become sentimentally attached to them and start expecting loyalty and unconditional love. Utashangaaaaa. Just for your sanity and your peace of mind and your own survival , dont be falling in love until you lose yourself. Dont. Fall in love fine but keep your head on straight about the reality of who people are out here. They have no morals .No conscience. Theyre materialistic .Theyre narcissistic. Its a freakin' jungle people. PROTECT YOURSELF. So that we dont see you on news going to jail because shit just overwhelmed you and you lost it. PROTECT YOURSELF. Guard your heart like its your life. Do relationships from your head because theres nobody who is worth all this mess I see everyday.No marriage or relationship is worth this insane shit of going to the extent of killing yourself, killing someone and going to jail for whats left of your life and then killing innocent children who didnt send you any applications to be born. PROTECT YOURSELF. So called Love Issa jungle. And you can take that to the bank.
GUYS don't worry , this is feminist talk , so don't expect clear rational thinking otherwise a very long dating and courting period will reveal the person you are with . fullstop .
 
#10
GUYS don't worry , this is feminist talk , so don't expect clear rational thinking otherwise a very long dating and courting period will reveal the person you are with . fullstop .
Clear rational thinking must be what they teach yall in Red Peels . That women are whore and you should never trust a woman. Feminist talk ,red peel talk, religious talk, atheist talk a fact remain a fact. If you fall head over heels with someone invest everything in them be so obssessed with them like you cant live without 'em. You could end up like Naftali Kinuthia. Btw this shit affects men more than women so I dont even understand where the feminist talk is coming from when I am addressing both genders. Unlike Red Peels who see everything thru red peels and Mathogothanio (MGTOW) filter. I am a very logical person and I observe things and draw logical conclusions. Like when I said that many if not not most married women sleep with bosses and men they work with to get financial favours nobody called me a Red Peel, nobody called me a MGTOW, yall just liked my comments because well I confirm what your stupid cult teaches you. Well I am balanced enough not to let my gender bias or fe

My point is nowadays you cant trust ANYBODY , you cant be 100% invested in anyone. That goes for your kids even. Expect anything from anyone so that when this happens you lose your mind
GUYS don't worry , this is feminist talk , so don't expect clear rational thinking otherwise a very long dating and courting period will reveal the person you are with . fullstop .
Yep. Says someone in a cult that lies to you that they have all the answers to world problems. How stupid are you? How many times have you seen even public figures maintain a secret double life for decades you think bcz red pit tells you that long courtship is your immunity that will actually protect you from human duplicity and deceit. You are more stupid than I ever thought.

 

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