Wadau, leo nimeskiza madem flani wakibonga story za marriage. Apparently in this age, I’m told responsibilities and chores are shared in the house. That husbands must cook, wash and babysit. Mimi sijawai skia kitu kama hio. By the way, mbona wanawake wakiachwa wao uchoma academic certificates and other most important documents za jamaa? Anyway, back to the topic, wakubwa wale mmeoa mnapika na kufua?
Stop dating slayqueens
Wewe hujaoa unapikiwa na nani? Mimi sijaoa but when do, I’ll neither be cleaning nor cooking. Siwezi kaliwa hivyo.
Get a wife and life will be like heaven on earth. Get a slayqueen or any of its variants and life will be like hell on earth. Problem is - slay queens are easier on the eyes!
Elder, inakaa in that conversation you had assumed a Maina Kageni role.
As an Elder of this great village You should be here telling here telling us how you set the ‘Madem’ straight not this Classic 105 discussion you want us to entertain.
Marriage in this day and age is a scam.
As a married elder, I did set out the irreducible minimums before the wife settled in my pigsty, top of which being she was required to take up all household chores. I do help out once in a while.
Bibi si mama yako kazi ifanywe na wote.
weh enyewe hii generation imejaa beta male and simps…Sasa utakuwa mjengo ukifikiria vile utaenda kuosha viombo…So whats the need of a wife…Bibi anafaa kukusaidia na bibi anaona ngumu kupika kuosha vyombe kuchunga mtoto huyo si bibi
ju ni mama ya watoto wenye unafunza ii upuzi
In my house I don’t give a damn, mpaka chupi zangu na skid marks lazima zioshwe. Wife must submit to a man’s demands. It’s simple programming… No simping!
Jamaa sema ni wewe ndio unafanya hizo roles…Tunaelewa reverse psychology…unataka kuona kama mko wengi ndio ujiconsole
What do you provide in return?
'ello you…nimesema msalimike leo hapo madukani. Hawa wasee hunikumbusha huko Gatamaiyu/Kagwe where I spent bits of my childhood.
Unfortunately times are changing but most of these challenges can be overcome. Nunua washing machine for clothes, dishwasher ya vyombo. You have already removed 2 sources of conflict kwa nyumba. Cooking wife can do. Akishindwa hata hiyo fukuza the useless b!tch.
Do you take up all the male traditional roles like paying all the bills, ama unasaidiwa kulipa bills by her?
Kwani anakunia mafi yenye ni kama rangi
IF YOU ARE A SINGLE WOMAN AND YOU DOUBT THAT MARRIAGE IS SLAVERY FOR WOMEN, READ EACH AND EVERY REPLY FROM MEN SLOWLY.