She is telling you what will come by and what you need to prepare for once you enter a serious relationship with her.
Thank God He showed you the signs. Usiseme hukuambiwa once upate unakuliwa bibi.
Also she looks to be these modern ladies with a warped understanding of gender differences. There are women who are like 'I can go for a year without sex, so a man also should'. Or 'we women forgive men who cheat so a man also should' and etc
But the same women are forgetting they had to look for 'manly' qualities in a man like provider, confident, successful etc to be attracted to the man
You won't want to live with a woman who thinks a man can work the same way as a woman. Hiyo marriage itakuwa shida tupu