In this age of commercialism, there are some things that young people should be educated about as they navigate the murky world of life. Take this instance where a young man doing menial jobs for example working in a supermarket earning 15k per month goes to the village and takes a girl who completed form four recently and marries her and they start living together. What would you tell such a man?
To go back to village and take another, three heads are better than two.
:D:D:Dlazima tu saidiane in these hard times… four heads are better than one
He would have avoided several head and heartaches. He should find a way the lady gets a job kwa MPESA shop. Because both have limited education and exposure they’ll be very loyal and faithful to their employers.
Their expectations would be low, soo a single room ya 3-4k ni sawa.As a matter of urgency, they should register for NHIF ya 500, live near their work places.
They should avoid exposure to Internet and CBD! Otherwise, jamaa atajua hii kijiji aanze kutuuliza ‘through pass na mahali pa kuosha rungu’ githurai.
They should avoid formal education, go for skills eg driving,touting, fixing electricals etc.
After 10yrs, they family will have known kuishi town and ndiye atakua kusema kwa estate.
@ChifuMbitika most of your posts here confirm that bado akili yako iko kwa matako despite being over 40 years old, ama bado huwa unakojoa kwa kitanda? Brare fwakini, is this even a post?
kwa village kuna hairy kienyeji tight
i always wonder ni nani anawakimbiza mbio hivi mkaoane…???..the society has conditioned you to a certain level that ukipatakibarua kidogo unakimbilia bibi yet you barely know anything about marriage…i would advise that ka-fellow to save as much as possible and try have multiple sources of income just incase his/her employer decides to fire him…build yourself and work your way up the financial ladder…Back to you in studio…
Why resort to insults? I have asked a simple question.
Thanks pastor. I too concur but the problem appears to be the pressure from the society. To answer myself, I would strongly advise young people from rushing into cohabitation especially when they are not yet financially stable.
Societal pressure has little to do with cohabitation as opposed to the hierachial needs as given to as by Maslow: need to be loved and belong.
On paper it looks quite good that build yourself up then cohabit,but as you know kwa ground …even this building yourself up is not guaranteed esp with this our economy…u need some one to love u through this tough times and in the process build yourselves. It omes with some level of responsibility and maturity esp when the kids come.
The few who do it the other way, most if not all are those who you see here asking for joints to change oil,y do you think that is? need to be loved and belong maybe?
Akunanga utamu kama ya kununulia watoto ama wife toys ama ata dress as opposed to ile PNC ya manze iyo 3k nilipea Vivian wa Roysambu ingeniskuma hii weeki…over to you in studio.
Kama huna pesa haraka ya kuoa inatoka wapi ?
a man is programmed to be lonely and it works best when he is climbing up the financial ladder since you have very minimal expenses…hii mambo ya kusema ati you marry early ndio muanze from scratch is the worst piece of crap i have/will ever come across…the age between 20 and 30 is called the selfish age gap where as a man you are obliged to mould and craft yourself as you approach your peak…at this age gap do not be a skirt chaser…instead chase your ambitions and i tell you a time will come when you will congratulate your self that you never gave up.
To enjoy the tight pussy to the fullest before a man of means comes around
How old was your dad when he married your mum?
Not really. The man has married the lady. Even a child is forthcoming
There’s pressure from families
and was he "accomplished " at the time? or did they build themselves up together. Mm nmeona difference ya mtu hajaoa wa 31 na mtu ameoa wa 25 na uyo wa 25 tuseme ako accomplished by this society standards. MM swali niko nayo kwako ni…how come a big percentage ya ndume ziko craiglist ni watu above 30 na 40? like by that time wakuanga accomplished? wanatafuta nn uko? alafu pia chances za kuwife the wrong thing ukiwa accomplished ni high,hutajua ulipendwa ama alipenda accomplishment zako…i rest my case your honour
Lakini makosa watu wanafanya ni kugive in to this society pressures, kitu tunafaa kua tunasema ni oa ukijiskia…kama ni ukiwa 24 ama 31 ww mwenyewe unajua kitu inakufaa…but kuoa ati ju ya watu…utatii .