Kibor sons lose bid to block him from land
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Binadamu ni binadamu.
If you read the laws of human nature you will understand.
Humans will always put their interests first and that includes your wife and kids.
Nobody is special.
If your wife or kid sees that there is no reward for taking care of you when you get old and fragile, they will be nowhere to be found and you will be a lonely old bastard.
But if you're rich, they will flock around you.
Some fighting for your property before you die, and others playing nice so you can include them in the will.
It's called human nature and you can't change it no matter how much you hate it.
If you read the laws of human nature you will understand.
Humans will always put their interests first and that includes your wife and kids.
Nobody is special.
If your wife or kid sees that there is no reward for taking care of you when you get old and fragile, they will be nowhere to be found and you will be a lonely old bastard.
But if you're rich, they will flock around you.
Some fighting for your property before you die, and others playing nice so you can include them in the will.
It's called human nature and you can't change it no matter how much you hate it.
This is beyond sad. Can he disinherit them legally and cut them out kabisa? Yenyewe are living in dangerous times. Kwetu Kiambu ni sob stories all over the ridges. Sons praying that their fathers would pass on pretty quickly wauze mashamba. The other side of the story is that some of these wazees sold prime land for a song and drunk all the money and died leaving their sons with no money and no land. Pathetic.
That's culturally induced behavior. The Japanese and Koreans would never do that to their elders. They show extreme reverence for parents.
Hii upuss waafrika wameadopt juzi juzi tu. What you call human nature can be nipped in the bud by punitive and dissuasive social sanctions found in our respective tribal cultures.
Hii upuss waafrika wameadopt juzi juzi tu. What you call human nature can be nipped in the bud by punitive and dissuasive social sanctions found in our respective tribal cultures.
Yes and I am staying here till the end. I pay my taxes here so why not benefit? growing old here is nowhere the same as growing old in Kenya. At least the local authorities will come and take me for free medical care, pay a carer to mind me till I go to a nursing home, take me for fun activities like bingo and trips to the beach with others....above all my kids are here and this lot have no plans of moving back to our motherland. My nephews tell us there is no difference between moving them to Kenya or China.
They don't understand our culture.
They don't understand our culture.
Male kids are the worst when it comes to taking care of older parents. Especially old fathers. If you have a daughter, you may get a visit or two from them in old age. In nursing homes, the general joke is that you can tell which resident has male kids by the number of ill fitting shirts and pants they dress in. Their sons only come in to have a check endorsed or during a grand child's birthday
Good story madam @Finest wine ,but as afather you have no obligation to leave your kids anything apart from education. Since you are in the UK kindly enlighten me. I hear that once kids go off to college they begin to work for themselves and look for their own assets there. Here in Kenya you find 40 year olds always crying about their Parents Assets.
Yes as long as you are working and you live with your parents you pay something towards the bills. But there are also v many inheritors stories. Even your childless aunt can give you money or leave you her house etc. Wanajua kujipanga sana and most of them have wills.
And of course they can decide to leave you with nothing and give all the money to charity. BTW hakuna cha kusema you have not found a job yet bla de bla. Enda job centre and get a weekly job seekers allowance na pia hiyo upatie wazai hata kama ni 15 pounds.
And it is v important to move out of home as soon as you can.
And of course they can decide to leave you with nothing and give all the money to charity. BTW hakuna cha kusema you have not found a job yet bla de bla. Enda job centre and get a weekly job seekers allowance na pia hiyo upatie wazai hata kama ni 15 pounds.
And it is v important to move out of home as soon as you can.
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