KIDS

For the past few weeks my two kids(boys)First one anajoin form two and his younger brother grade three wamekuwa wakiishi kwa Family ya inlaws and reason ni kwa sababu and I’ll explain in detail-;I live in in a very serene environment hapa Jiji of which awa watoi wangu Ata kupata watoi wakucheza na wao it’s very hard and both of us wife and me tuko busy tukiwatafutia…
The reason I took them to my in-laws is just as vienye wife anasema ni coz kwetu hakuna watoi mob kama kwao and I don’t refute…Now my issue is Jana my kids came back and I wasn’t around nilikuwa maulevi zangu and today morning upon waking up my younger kid was damned happy kuniona akakam bedroom,hugged me and he was genuinely happy hatujaonana for some few weeks.Now my first son just Came to my bedroom,hakunisalimia and just sat there kwa couch akiniangalia…Yaani that thing has really demoralized me;Mimi nimelea Hawa watoi wangu kienyeji style but they’re in the best schools and as I can say they lack zero .Ive really felt some deep hatredness towards him,Ùyù mkid I sacrifice all my time kumpleka shule (mind you I don’t spoil my kids),gives him the best.dony know what to say

wapatie time yako, resources watahitaji badaye. kwa sasa ivi wapatie masaa kadhaa kila weekend.

Low iq kama wewe should be castrated, what do you expect from a teenager

Never take your kids to your inlaws no matter what, unless ni siku moja au mbili. Chances are they will come poisoned againist you. If you’re through and through with your son muite kando muulize what’s going on. Inakaa alichapiwa fact fulani disturbing kukuhusu. Mother in laws usiwachezee they are experienced manipulators who know what buttons to push.

Teenagers are confused fools, hao hunyesha 24/7,both boys and girls. Maybe he hated it there and blames you. Or some girl rejected him and he blames you. Or maybe huko alikuwa aliambiwa yeye sasa ni “mwanaume” hafai ku-show emotions fwaaa. Or maybe he just started his emo phase. It could be anything. Like I said, teenagers are stupid.

Ni ulevi wako unamsumbua. Na itaendelea kumsumbua hadi either ahame ama uwache. Watoi si mafala vile watu hufikiria.

Kids being kids i think… peleka yeye out mbond na muulize what’s up

Leta number ya bibi ntamuelezea kwa udi na uvumba

Like the cyber boy (Aka) @captain obvious has told you, ni teenage inamsumbua. My son heading to form four anasumbuliwa na uteennie sana. Sometime he wakes up with mood swings and he isnt talking to anyone. So hiyo sio kitu ya kukujalisha mkuu.

Mkalishe chini muongee na yeye man-to-man. He is a teenager and there are many things that could be going on in his mind. Don’t rush to make conclusion.

I mean that is common sense. Aklitombana na hajui kazi ya uzazi

Malisa hio mujamaa

Fanya testosterone test ,I smell a lot of Oestrogen in this Uzi ," Ati your son hurt your feeling s, because he didn’t hug you all smiles"

Now this is a a good starting point… The boy is grown now and ameanza kuona things in a different perspective, sio vile alikuwa babas boy kitambo. And you have to be ready for those moments… Ameona wasichana sasa hana shughuli na wewe tena. Why would he hug you na labda hapo kwa mashemeji kwa boma next alipewa his first kiss and the softest hug na nipples saa sita zikimdunga kufua?

Just like a bird the boy is getting ready to fly out of the nest for good…

Speaking of which, When was the last time you hugged your own dad?

Some of you idiots faggars from ktalk believe mnajua Kila kitu pertaining to serious life issues natunapea mabibi zenu 1k natunawatomba when you’re flossing with your 4wheels loaned vehicles ata hamjijui mnaona mlifika…Got no issue with my kid maturing up and neither getting hugged mother fucker…just greetings like…Hey Father…the formal greetings…na nimesema I’ve brought my kids kienyeji Sio iyo yenu ya ujinga just cz unalipwa 120k na Kcb unaona nikama the world revolve around you…ngui

si uko na mood swings

Ama kijana aliambiwa huyu mtu sio baba yake? Eish, the guy is very angry… Deep sitted anger…

:smiley: unasema amepatana na the real planter anaona huyu jamaa kama shiet in his eyes?

Wait, did you expect your teen son to enter your bedroom and gift you a very big hug? Jesus Christ.!!!