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Ule Mlanje

Village Elder
#1
I have a friend who met a real beautiful lady with wife qualities zile za ushago sio za ujinga but ready to be serious in relationship. Paro wameleta noma ati yeye huenda church ya Sunday ya Kiuna na yeye ni SDA. Ananiuliza advice and am stuck. If it were you what would you do?
 

M2Random

Village Sponsor
#15
I have a friend who met a real beautiful lady with wife qualities zile za ushago sio za ujinga but ready to be serious in relationship. Paro wameleta noma ati yeye huenda church ya Sunday ya Kiuna na yeye ni SDA. Ananiuliza advice and am stuck. If it were you what would you do?
Since when did parents dictate your love life. Hapo hata hakuna maswali. I am surprised that people still consult their parents about love affairs. His parents have zero say on the matter. Meanwhile anafaa akuwe anachukua slices in bulk kufanya road test, asikaidi mawaidha ya wazazi halafu apate mileage ni ya matatu mzee. :D
 

LeoK

Village Elder
#17
Si I thought if the guy is a strict church adherent the girl automatically joins his church. but if thhe guy last went to church to attend a wedding the girl is free to continue going to her church.
 
#19
WHAT? wait before i weigh in lets bring our woman values expert...

@GeorginaMakena tuambie
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and all the other thots are welcomed
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@DeliciousShiko @Jergen
HAHAHA!!!! yOU'VE MADE MY DAY. Mimi ndio expert??? Let him marry SDA mwenzake unles he wants to be estranged from his fam, Sda take Sato manenos very seriously... Tht wont change. And the girl will be miserable in SDA after Charismatic churches. Let them go their separate ways,watu ni wengi wanatafuta spouses so why make huge compromises when you could find someone more similar to you.You shouldnt change your preferences for a spouse,this things are the reason they fell in love with you in the first place,once you lose yourself and your individuality its then you even lose appeal to your spouse whatever you loved when you're single you should keep it up. Dont become a clone of your man. I used to go watch football with my partner but in time I started to realise ging along just for the sake is making me lose myself as in am not being true to myself and if you're not true to yourself you cant be in love with yourself, and if you dont think you're special ,atleast special enough to have your own interests and own loves and hobbies and quarks then you lose your individuality and you become an amphibian , which changes temperature depending on the environment. When you pretend to do stuff to please someone you're doing a disservice to yourself and it'll end up spoiling the relationship
 
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Kombora

Village Elder
#20
The kiunas preach the gospel of prosperity and encourage the girls to look for well off people if they want to get married, maybe the parents fear that their son atapelekwa mbio
 

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