Kunguru wife

Elders! Have been going through your threads and I acknowledge majority are useful and I decided to create an account to share my concern.

During the beginning of the year, my wife was fired from work.she was a BOM teacher , bado hakua ameandikwa na TSC.
So she was looking for job polepole while we were together, then around March akaenda naks kuvisit her parents while looking for opportunities in the schools there.
Lockdown ilimpata huko and she was there until almost end of April ndio nkaorganize akarudi nai through trailer ya mafuta.she never gave any satisfactory reason as to why she was so reluctant to come back.

O7/5/20-nmetoka job jioni, tukiwatch news she receives a call and responds to some few questions then suddenly she goes hysterical and shouts words like “thank you” then the caller hangs up. She then tells me the caller is a principal from a school in Nakuru and he had call her to notify her that her employment letter from TCS has been delivered in the school.and that she should report to the school on 15th of May.

15/5/2020-i report to work as she boards a personal pale kabete.btw people have been making good money hapo kebete with personal car.they have been transporting people out of nai.i suspect lazma polisi walikua kwa iyo deal. Later in the day, I call her and from the background it’s like she is in a car.i could even hear those romantic rnb music on the background. So nkamuuliza kwani hajafika? She says amemaliza orientation and everything.our conversation is very dry and so casual at that time.she tells me she will sleep at her parents place and be back the following day.later in the night I call her because mtoi alikua antaka kumgotea, but somehow her phone was not going through.

16/5/2020-on Saturday she comes back at around midday and takes a shower and goes direct to bed.

24/6/20- nkiwa na mtoi kwa backyard,she brings up some very strange issue. She goes like " tunaweza lima ile shamba ya kitengela? Kuna soko nmepata mahali ya maharagwe.kuna mtu January atahitaji like ten bags of beans." Guys Remember schools will be opening in January and schools consume huge amount of beans too.

Jana wakati konyagi aliamua kufungua Nairobi nkiwa job, kunguru calls me and tells me home kwao Kuna emergency na ako kwa gari akielekea home…Hadi sahi simu yake iko off.

My analysis is that kunguru alienda naks akakulwa ndio apate job TSC.most likely na principal.so principal antaka kumrushia tender ya maharagwe ndio aendelee kupata slices.

I have just texted her sister one sentence “uyo Malaya wenyu asirudi kwangu” . DONE AND DUSTED

YES…mwanaume ni kudrop mic ivo…pana mbembeleza mtu…ngoja,na mtoi?

07/05/2020 was the red flag you should have seen. TSC ain’t hiring now and there ain’t any open school due to Covid-19 manenos. Where was she going when the schools are already closed?

Sahii na hii COVID situeshen mtu yeyote jobless anapata kazi lazima uchunguze yeye. Either anapeana ikus ama kupasuliwa mayai vile @Mzee mzima alifanyiwa na Francis wa PS ndio acheze game za free.

Maliza hiyo ghasia :D:D:D:D

Well your guts are correct, but your analyses is probably not on point. you are thinking of principal, its not a principal, its another nigger. story na kulima shamba ni diverting guilt, alikuwa ametoka kutombewa mahali vizuuuri, and not by a principal again, just another random nigger in the city.
The biggest mistake you made is to involve her sister. it was not called for…

MGTOW boys akina @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii walisema married men play defense 24/7 in a game they can’t win. Maybe they have a point for men who cannot smell a kunguru from a mile away[ATTACH=full]312395[/ATTACH].

maliza hii ghasia

Sorry for the loss… Good luck you read between the lines which many men have failed to read. You know one thing about love is that your instincts never lie to you. It’s a natural sense we were built with in addition to the love itself. Let nobody ever lie to you that you’re insecure. When something doesn’t add up you’ll feel it.

stress itakuua baba… ka na mtoi weachana na kunguru. chunga pia kama kuna ninja ana DFHKNKMN ukedi si homa

kenyatalk is official "troubled men help group’’

women have their kilimani moms. here we help a bro with red hot direct advice, and we help our little brothers learn not to be bashed around by girls just coz of ikus

When you feel that a woman is cheating- she is cheating.
Sasa don’t overreact aka sending messages to sisters et al.
Wewe ni ndume. You’re the embodiment of strength and resilience. To the outside world kaa mgumu. Ie. To the inlaws.
Personally crumble cry and grumble all you want. Heal.
I’m sorry bro. Keep living. Pole sana kaka. Good move not even confronting her.

Nlikua na kunguru mngine jana usiku yote anapigiwa na chali yake…hii mambo is sharing. pia wewe najua unakulanga nje saa ngine

Why involve her sister. You could have just texted her"I don’t want to see you again". Her sister is a third party to your domestic issues.

Aaaah baba! Kutombewo ni lazima. Ama unafikiria ni wewe tu uko na macho, mjulus ama pesa? Take back your whore wife na muendelea kulea m-junior polepole bila makasiriko. The plantation is like that- infact wewe uko na bahati atleast bibi anajaribu kuficha. All married women and men are eating and eaten outside. Kama unataka faithfulness rudi dating game naniiiiiiiiiiii!

Hapa itabidi tumezoea. Most escapades I have had with women always have a boyfriend or a serious one. You can never find a single lady in this town.

Kuoa siku hizi nikujicheza. Mwanamke amezoea kutombwa na wanaume tofauti haezi tulia just because she is now Mrs so and so…The only thing women do is play the game as discreetly as possible. Women keep getting ferrked by resourceful men until they hit their menopause, especially kama mtoto ameanza kutembea etc. The unfortunate chap is the one who saddled her tired ass in the name of ‘marriage’. Young men should find a way of procreating ( if it is a must ) without committing to such traps.

Sijui kwa nini naona umejua what’s happening

Don’t make a mistake and take her back. Inauma but you decision is final. Don’t engage family members about it. In fact the few they know the better and deep down you know you are right.