Life Lessons

#22
Mimi I was taught the female nature when a chick I spent my money on,Spent all my time on and Stayed loyal to.Went ahead to cheat on me and got an STD.I was unlucky since by the time I knew it I had already gotten it.To make matters worse she didnt want to go to hosi to get checked up.Eventually she even broke up with me for very stupid reasons.Now I just avoid sex and women.I don't even plan on getting children,or getting married.Whats the point of loving someone only for them to give you an std?
 

uhondo

Village Elder
#25
Mimi I was taught the female nature when a chick I spent my money on,Spent all my time on and Stayed loyal to.Went ahead to cheat on me and got an STD.I was unlucky since by the time I knew it I had already gotten it.To make matters worse she didnt want to go to hosi to get checked up.Eventually she even broke up with me for very stupid reasons.Now I just avoid sex and women.I don't even plan on getting children,or getting married.Whats the point of loving someone only for them to give you an std?
Be easy boss. STDs watu hupata, wana tibiwa na kazi ina endelea.
 
#28
Wow, the wisdom here is enormous.
Big ups folks.

1. I have learnt never to trust every person that i meet, be it financially, socially or whatever.
2. Tenda wema nenda zako, lower your expectations of people
3. Life is short, have fun and do whatever pleases you.
4. Travel as wide as you can, the earth is a very beautiful planet.
5. Share your love with those that love you, be they your kids, parents
6. Always have some money for back up, things can go south any moment.
 

gobshite

Village Elder
#34
-Always have an open mind. Do not be rigid in your thinking
-Diversify your investments
-Learn new skills and adapt to changing times
-Healthcare is expensive. get adequate cover i.e. NHIF plus any other. when things go wrong that money runs out fast
 
#37
With all these valuable life lessons, we have something to gain and I would like to throw in a favourite quote of mine to this effect:

"All we see of someone at any moment is a snapshot of their life, there in riches or poverty, in joy or despair. Snapshots don't show the million decisions that led to that moment." ~ Richard Bach
 

melvo

Village Elder
#38
Hata sikujua nilinena hifi. now you have taught me right back.

So, life lesson: Always share knowledge. It might come back to you as a lesson.
Haha, for some reason that sentence resonated with me ever since, I've never forgotten it.

Plus it is something you see every day out there
 
#39
I think that the best life lesson you have only then when has a big problem. Sorry for that but only big and real problems make you take off the pink glasses. Also, it is important to follow some lessons. They will help you to organize your life and make you responsible. I have a friend who has piano lessons in Singapore and to be honest he has changed a lot. Now he tells that piano lessons made him listen to everything and everyone. He doesn't judge he just listens to and makes conclusions. So try to take some instrumental lessons.
 
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