It occurred to me the only destination is death and everything else is an opportunity to choose how you want to experience the journey.
“Why do I do what I do? What drives me to make the choices that I make?”
So I decided I will not start anything that I do not want to do for the rest of my life. In that way its not a destination that I’m working towards because that’s already decided and I can’t change it but what I can do is work on the quality of the journey I tailor for myself by working with my strengths. The added value to that I thought is that if it’s a skill I will get better at it with time and also if I enjoy it I will be willing to learn and do more of it. Same with if it’s friendships, hobbies etc
Of course I don’t claim that things will always go as planned, its inevitable to drop some on the way but keeping an eye on whether or not it serves my journey makes decision making that much easier.
Make sure you choose your journey so that next time you’re faced with what seems to be an impossible decision to make you can ask yourself “Does this serve my journey or nah?” if yes then cherish it, nurture it and slowly polish it. If the answer is no, it might as well not exist.
“Why do I do what I do? What drives me to make the choices that I make?”
So I decided I will not start anything that I do not want to do for the rest of my life. In that way its not a destination that I’m working towards because that’s already decided and I can’t change it but what I can do is work on the quality of the journey I tailor for myself by working with my strengths. The added value to that I thought is that if it’s a skill I will get better at it with time and also if I enjoy it I will be willing to learn and do more of it. Same with if it’s friendships, hobbies etc
Of course I don’t claim that things will always go as planned, its inevitable to drop some on the way but keeping an eye on whether or not it serves my journey makes decision making that much easier.
Make sure you choose your journey so that next time you’re faced with what seems to be an impossible decision to make you can ask yourself “Does this serve my journey or nah?” if yes then cherish it, nurture it and slowly polish it. If the answer is no, it might as well not exist.
