There is this chic I have been supporting (she is a single mum) for 4 months now. She fell for me and has been very open with me about everything (her family, friends,...etc) but I am not that open with her (to me it was a rshp of convenience-just dry fry her as I support her to become stable somewhat). Initially nilimfungulia biz ya kuuza nguo but after a month akasema haina faida. She then decided to hawk the clothes within the estate and was making some money, she later complained of fatigue, kuumwa na miguu na mgongo na hivyo akawacha . Nikamwambia atafute biz nyingine ile yuaona itamfaa (which I had promised to support) but dame hadi sasa hajanipa jibu. So in between amekuwa akiniitisha pesa (ok I pay her rent) mara 2k, mara 1k, mara 2k.....in a span of 10 days. Whenever she visits me (like thrice a month) I usually give her 2000 bob (usually on Sunday evening coz she sleeps over from Sato mpaka Sunday) lakini by Friday tena yuaitisha pesa zingine. We having been having dry fry sessions and she wants me to go and see her mum...as in we formalize our rshp so that I can get her pregnant. On Wednesday I gave her 2k na jana tena akawa yuaitisha 1k.....hiyo sikumpa. I have had enough of her and wanna end this rshp....am I making the right move here? Ama her expenses warrant a similar top up? Ni gold digger huyu ama? I care for her but I don't think I love her. I have always wanted to leave her but wished to do so after she is able to at least support herself financially....lakini sijaona bidii yoyote toka kwake ya kutafuta kazi ama nia ya kufanya kazi.......should I cut it and leave her? Maanake sasa amekuwa omba omba tu. Hii pesa yote yuapeleka wapi?