Marriage & Parentage

#1
I can't help notice how it changes abruptly on both sides of the divide.
When a guy gets married, he tends to develop empathy kind of feelings n an understanding of his father's behaviour/rules.Personally (been married for 9 yrs), I started appreciating my Old man's sacrifices n weird tough love when I married n got kids.na hapo ndio niliwacha utoto ya kusema ati I love my mum more than my dad.

On the other hand, them ladies get suddenly close n mushy mushy with their mums once they pop a young one. I was told its coz they realize that that's exactly wat their mamas went thru, hence the sudden deepened bond.

Wats ur take?
 

Ka-Buda

Village Elder
#2
Too true.
It's actually more when as a man you get a boy.
You start to see yourself in him and you realise how much you behave like your own father.
I always catch myself repeating the same words my dad would use and it scares me because I resented him saying them but I now think he is a Hero.
 

Abba

Village Sponsor
#4
I can't help notice how it changes abruptly on both sides of the divide.
When a guy gets married, he tends to develop empathy kind of feelings n an understanding of his father's behaviour/rules.Personally (been married for 9 yrs), I started appreciating my Old man's sacrifices n weird tough love when I married n got kids.na hapo ndio niliwacha utoto ya kusema ati I love my mum more than my dad.

On the other hand, them ladies get suddenly close n mushy mushy with their mums once they pop a young one. I was told its coz they realize that that's exactly wat their mamas went thru, hence the sudden deepened bond.

Wats ur take?
Very true. I these days run to the defence of my father when some fights start from nowhere back in mumias. Been Married for a while but them 'women' you'll never understand them.

I used to fuse every little petty squabbles they start ,then I came to realize why my father would stand up walk away should he sniff something simmering . I do that exactly the same and by default I'm teaching my little boy by going to the back of the house and work on that 1981 Jimny suzuki hadi kelele ipoe.

Nikifuatwa nyuma kwa garage na hizo nyef nyef, I look for my buddies and we go hang out and text her "let me know when your titties are calm i come home to my long time friend" But you are right on money friend
 
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